Im not really a social person, I have a lot of friends and acquaintances but I like staying in and working out and doing homework, I will hang out with people once a month maybe but Im really busy with work and school. Am I weird for not going out clubbing, etc. I want to get good gradesand better myself.
2006-10-12 10:33:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its really good to have some alone time for oneself.
2006-10-12 10:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not weird; it's a good thing.. focus on what matters [school, good grades, getting ahead], in the end, it'll pay off.
I'm the same way [never went to a club in my life lol and I'm 23]. I'd rather stay in with a good book than being outside just for sake of being out there. [When I tell people that, it's hard for them to comprehend but that's their business, I could care less.]
There's nothing weird about you.. keep doing what you're doing :D and good luck
2006-10-12 17:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not "weird" - though your peers may try to persuade you that you have a problem. You have your priorities in order and that's what's important. Do what YOU feel is right. If you only feel like going out once a month or so, then there's nothing wrong with that.
Kudos for wanting to improve yourself and do well instead of spending your time goofing off with your friends! There's a time and a place for goofing off (and that time is not ALL the time!)
2006-10-12 17:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have your whole life ahead of you. Just keep doing what you are and learn about yourself. If you do/don't meet someone, enjoy life the way "YOU" want it. Don't feel pressured to date, or anything. I was in college before I even started to date. Now I'm 31 and I still don't know what I want in a relationship. So no, you are not weird. And there isn't anything wrong with not going to clubs, smoking, or drinking. Be true to yourself.
2006-10-12 17:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by low1sk8er 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may think so, but really, the others ares still goning to be in college for the next years, when you will be gone and have agood job. you sound like a very normal person, who is very dedicated and a hard worker. That is hard to come by, and it will pay off. I am the same way!
2006-10-12 17:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by NY Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are great!!! Keep doing what youre doing. I was silly at school, although I am an intelligent person, and I am now paying for it in an exhausting low paid job.People with brains are quite happy in their own company! Keep it up!!! Good luck, have a good life :)
2006-10-12 17:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Juliette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not weird for hanging out by your self you do not have to worry about any kind of drama that way i say you need to have a little more fun in your life all work and no play is not good for you.
2006-10-12 17:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by good girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Solitude is not a bad thing, especailly if you're goal oriented. Many of those that spend their educational years doing too much partying end up not finishing school. Me, for example.
2006-10-12 17:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey it is your life!
But set the pattern and 50 years Alone is not fun!
2006-10-12 17:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're absolutely admirable!....kudoes to you for wanting good grades and trying to better yourself....trust me, you're definitely NOT weird....the world needs more focussed people like you!
2006-10-12 17:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jaybird21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird. sometimes its good to spend time alone with your self tou dont need to be all out in the world all the time.
2006-10-12 17:41:39 · answer #11 · answered by Bree Lynne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋