I have a boyfriend who finds fighting with me, who lives with him, makes him look like the wondering boyfriend looking for a better place. Except, he is useing me as a shield and making stuff up with coeworkers so he can have a relationship and then when he's ready to move on he uses our situation to remove himself from the relationship. I'm getting the bangs on the head from his employer and employees and my own and trying to disregard the woman who've known I was here. What do I do to not look like the bad guy... and get people to see I need a hand out of this situation!
Concerned and with children watching!
2006-10-12 10:21:35 · 5 answers · asked by Looking at options... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
leave him, he sounds knida controlling, for you to watch him have other relationships, what does he have on you? you have a child or two together, they wil be much better off. for you to permit him to have other relationships is kinda silly. life is too short to be unhappy, i also have a coworker interested in me, but he is married, and that is that. women should have respect for themselves and other women. leave him let his cowrkers see somebody else look like the bad guy.
2006-10-12 13:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently the answer is to have a carefulness that stays with you for a single always this is a major problem.If you really think so is a bad guy,try to talk to him and sit on the compromising table to end the task.If you hand out..peoples will laugh on you not on the guy.Why do you create a blind trust on the guy.I mean watch it,watch for him.
2006-10-12 10:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by Google P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a little lost the way you phrased this question, but I think you should just dump him and stay away from him all together!!
2006-10-12 10:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't allow anyone to use you. Get him out of your life , don't be manipulated.
2006-10-12 10:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by nv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve better
Take care-
Cat
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2006-10-12 10:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by CatLambe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋