One of my co-worker grabbed my *** and I called my wife and she came down and talked to him when she stopped laughing she told him to go ahead and grab away may be I might lose some pounds running away from him . Did she handle it right ?
2006-10-12 10:20:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
UM NO!!! First things first, you should not need your wife to address this for you, you should have gone right to your supervisor or manager and filed a formal complaint for sexual harrasment. what your co-worker did is against the law.
Secondly, if your wife is comfortable with other men touching you inappropriately, you will want to discuss this with her. First acknowlege that you should have never gotten her involved in the first place, and should have gone directly to a manager with your concerns. Then, you will want to ask her what is it that allows her to feel comfortable with other people groping you? Just a common sense question, if the tables were turned, would she want you to go and tell one of her co workers "feel free to fondle my wife any time you like" if the situation were reveresed? She probably wouldn't. and this is where you can address the fact that when you come to her with a sincere concern about mistreatment in the workplace--or anywhere else for that matter, you would appreciate being taken seriously and not having your emotions and concerns brushed off without a second thought.
You deserve the same level of respect as anyone else, so take care of the situation at work first and foremost, by addressing it with a supervisor, and if necessary with your HR department, and after this has been cleared up, then as gently as possibly, relay your completely plausible concerns with your spouse.
Good Luck & God Bless!
2006-10-12 10:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Debilee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No she didnt but this is something that you should have handled on your on because this was an insult against your manhood. You should have put him in his place right after it happened. Tell him that you are a married man and if he got some idea that you were not straight or that you were bisexual and that he should never disrespect you in that way ever again or things might escalate to a more physical things. If you wanted to talk to your wife about what went on at work when you got home that was fine but she didnt need to come down there. The reason she may have just laughed the whole situation is because she knows that you are straight and she has no reason to worry about your co worker but personally I think she could have handled the whole situation in a more approiate way and factore how you felt about the situation before she just made a joke about it. She is lucky that you were not calling her from the police station because most men would have tried to kill hm for touching them in that way without a sefcond thought because it is a straight show of disrespect on your part as well as your wifes. I think you just called your wife because you were just shocked when it happened and didnt know how to react to the whole situation.
2006-10-12 10:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send your friend over to grab her ***. see how she likes it. By the way, tell your boss you want it to stop now. Man, see all the harsh comments toward you. If you were a woman being grabbed by a man all these women answering would be sympathetic. Hypocrites
2006-10-12 10:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by wudbiser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could in no way propose somebody to this point a coworker. If issues paintings out, there'll be gossip and doubtless jealousy and backbiting from different coworkers. If issues do not paintings out, it extremely is going to be extremely uncomfortable to proceed to paintings with him.
2016-10-16 03:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me understand this.....
You're a man?
Another man grabs your ***?
You have to call your wife to come over and handle this?
HolyMoly!!!!
2006-10-12 10:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by Use another Nickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes in one way, but no in another...But then again I don't think I quite understand the question either....
2006-10-12 10:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was rude of your wife!!
tell her some good looking woman grabbed you.. see if she laughs about that..
2006-10-12 10:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by green eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't handle it at all. He did.
No, she erred. You should file a harassment complaint.
2006-10-12 10:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhhmmmm. Hello! Can't you take care of that yourself?
2006-10-12 11:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but neither did you
2006-10-12 10:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋