what birthcontrol do you think is the best for a long term relationship/marriage? i am a virgin, so im jw for the future, cause i dont like condoms, should i use them anyways for more protection? i dont want the possibility of my future wife getting prego...but i want sex thats skin to skin.....so should i have my wife be on the pill? is there anything else the girl can be on to add back up protection? thx for any help you give
2006-10-12 09:43:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
ya i will descuss it with her....when i meet her! im just wonderin, damn people
2006-10-12 09:49:54 · update #1
birth control would be a great idea and you shouldn't need condoms if she takes her pills correctly- and if you both are faithful (therefore illiminating std risk) as far as a good one... it all depends. She should talk to her obgyn about it and the two of them can make the best decision for her.
Good luck with your life together marriage is truely a blessing- soemtime is in a hidious disguise.
2006-10-12 09:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by NewMommy!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really are several options. Personally, I like the pill. I'm used to taking it (many years now) and I have no side effects. I take the active pills all the time and don't even bother having periods that way. An IUD is an option as well. There are birth control patches that a woman can wear on her skin and switch out weekly too. There are also strips that go under the skin and inserts that go around the cervix - all variations on the same theme as the pill.
2006-10-12 10:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical male. You only care about your own pleasure. For your information, the birth control causes a lot of unpleasant side effects for a lot of women - headaches, weight gain, breast pain, nausea. Heaven forbid that you should lose that skin to skin sensation though. Maybe you should just get a vasectomy, and then have it reversed when you finally want a child. Or is that too much of a burden on your shoulders?
2006-10-12 09:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by 13th Floor 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HERE read this ..... http://www.knowmycycle.com/birth-control-method.aspx
i'm on the hormonal shots myself and i think that it's wonderful... this is the second time that i've been on it. however with all shots or implants there are chances of sterilization also.... check out the side effects of each ... but it's more of the woman's choice than anything
2006-10-12 09:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pill is good, but nothing is 100%. I got pregnant with an IUD and that is 99.9%.
2006-10-12 09:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by Nattie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend the diaphram. It's used along with spermicide for that extra stopping power.
2006-10-12 10:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Hacksaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and her should go and discuss options with her doctor, talk it over between the two of you and then decide together.
2006-10-12 09:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Rosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her on a pill
you can only get an IUD if she's had a baby.
2006-10-12 10:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh brother..............maybe you could have her orgasms for her too!..............The TWO of you discuss it ok!
2006-10-12 09:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by crownvic64 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋