i have a problem there are two people who are in my class they only bully me and not any one alse.
lets start with today one for the bullies sit behind me and she wheres glasses and she uses her glass case and pulls my hair i hat it when she dost it but if i tell her i hate her she WILL tell her best friend wich is the outher bully. so i tell my frend but i forgot that she is a blabber mouth and i told her about the bully be-hind me and she sudenly tells the bullies and i saied i hate her and she joined the bullies and now and foriver she is no longer my friend!
i can not ecape them so i still try to i did ever thing i could do i am in a christion school so i don't want to do something really mean to them so what do i do???
p.s i am the nice prson so i can't do mean things.
2006-10-12 09:41:51 · 17 answers · asked by lunar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you havent told the teacher, you should. maybe talk to the principal. ask your teacher for a new seat and tell the teacher that she is bugging and bullying you. i changed schools from a catholic school were everything had to be right, and they were so strict, to one that doesn't care if you say swear words to people. that changed for me a lot and there are a lot of bullys at my school but after so many times of them picking on me i learned to just ignore them. one year i beat the crap out of someone 'cause they were giving me a hard time. i got susspended. thats the route you don't want to go on. so like i said tell someone. THEY CAN REALLY HELP!!!
2006-10-12 09:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by taylor g 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Only way you're going to be able to deal with this is to stand up and let them know you are not going to take it. They are not your friends and they are doing their best to hurt you in any way they can. Get people you trust involved, this includes teachers or other adults. It sounds bad to "tattle", but this will pass and it's less painful then being picked on. You have a right to go through life without being judged by those around you. If it bothers you that much, put an end to it. Say out loud right in the middle of class "Is there a reason you keep pulling my hair with that glasses case?" or you can always grab it from her and whip it across the room (j/K).
2006-10-12 09:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cutter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a similar experience. I solved it in a slightly scary way. This takes HUGE courage, but it works.
Hopefully your teacher has a waste-paper basket at the front of the class. Even more hopefully, it has a few apple-cores, banana skins and used kleenex in it.
Ignore EVERYTHING - march to the front of the class, pick up the basket, march back and plant it on the bully's head, like a medieval knight's helmet - junk included.
I did this. The result was I got a week of detention.
BUT
The bully was laughed at by all her friends for a lot longer than a week.
The teachers smiled at me more - they knew she was a problem but weren't "allowed" to do what needed to be done (bully's parents were bullies, too).
I never got bullied again.
2006-10-12 10:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your parents. They are the best source of comfort and will give you sound advice. Bullies have control issues and must be in control all the time. The best thing to do is to stand up to them and if you get hurt don't let them think they hurt you. Tell them you aren't afraid and that if what they do affects your learning at school, your parents should talk to the Principal and clear things up.
2006-10-12 09:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by dealerschool2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have options:
1. Move your seat and sit close to your friends.
2. Play mind games with her. Ask her if she feels so bad that she is fat, ugly and wears glasses that she has to pick on you.
3. Yes, you have to do something mean. Knock her right between the eyes and break her glasses and break her nose.
Bullies are just horrible, insecure people. They gravitate towards those who they feel they can victimize. Stand up to her, but don't do it by yourself. Worse, comes to worse tell your teacher/counselor.
2006-10-12 09:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by JuJitsu_Fan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people will take advantage of you and keep doing it if you keep letting them!
So, this is what you do. The next time she does it in class, whirl around and yell "STOP PULLING MY HAIR!!!!!!!!!" in a very attitudey rude manner.
The teacher will probably yell at the person pulling your hair.
Or maybe you can quickly grab her glasses case when she latches it onto your hair and throw it across the room or something.
when the teacher is like "why did you do that" tell her what she was doing with it.
2006-10-12 09:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
first, get new friends, a bully is a friend to no one, next move seats, then play mind games with them, show them you're a better person and won't sink to their level of immaturity
2016-07-11 13:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. Ok, so you're Christan and can't do bad things, only "nice" things. What if someone killed your dear one, one day? What "nice" deed are you going to do for them? Serve them cookies? Stand Up for yourself! You can't live like this all your life!
2006-10-12 09:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
umm
find a new sit but u should really still u should not have to deal with other peoples crap.
what u do is when she pulls your hair say WHAT THE HELL R U DOING! so the teacher hears
2006-10-12 09:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
BEAT their @SSes LOL. J/k. stick up for yourself. Tell your teacher, someone higher up. I would take that girls glasses and step on them or something so she would no longer be able to see u to bully u. SEe GREAT IDEA!! LOL
2006-10-12 09:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by Cj 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋