WHEN WE FIRST STARTED DATING HE TOLD ME THE NUMBER OF GIRLS NOW SIX MONTHS LATER IT HAS TRIPLED
2006-10-12 09:40:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this is one of the few things i WOULDN'T worry about. a lot of people lie about that because they are afraid you will negatively judge them if they are honest. some couples, wisely, choose never to share that information. but if he is telling you now it is probably because he trusts you and wants to share more with you.
or..................
he may be trying to get you to confess to more than you had previously admitted. so step carefully there....
good luck
2006-10-12 09:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do it's the past? All guys lie about the number. What he did in the past shouldn't concern you. If you are worried about STD's then go get checked if you haven't yet. Ask him to go with you too. Both of you go together. This is not even worth arguing over b/c you two will not break up over this. Who cares if he lied? If he would've told you the truth, would you have dated him? That's what it comes down to and the reason for the lie. Now he knows he has you and well now you can know the truth. And to tell you the truth, it's probably more than that.
2006-10-12 16:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was afraid to tell the truth because he was afraid of turning you off. Lying is never the answer or the best way to do something but now he may be feeling guilty and wants to tell the truth..He may have always wanted to tell you the truth but was afraid to...I would sit down and talk to him in a calm manner and let him know your disappointment and try to grow on it. Let him know the past is the past and you accept him now and do not expect to be lied to anymore...Honesty is best policy....
2006-10-12 16:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by cyborg_2099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be specific when you ask about "been with",
If you mean standing in the same room, could be a million.
If you mean sex, what kind counts.
My number is around 12 I think, depending on what counts.
Look for basic honesty and communication I think.
2006-10-12 16:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should it matter how many people he has been with. Maybe he knew it would seem like alot to you so he lied because he was afraid you wouldn't like him.
If you like him it shouldn't, you can't judge him from his past, and if your that concerned then you and him both should be tested for STD's if your having or have had unprotected sex.
2006-10-12 16:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ms T in GI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will this matter tomorrow? Next Week? Next Year? Why do you worry about such stuff? Who cares how many either of you have been with. If you like each other now, then let the other stuff go. Be real, be adult, have fun, but be careful!
2006-10-12 16:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having sex with him I would definitely stop, and I would not do it again, protected or unprotected, until he got tested for AIDS or any other STD. Then I would say to him you either come clean with the exact number or I will be moving on to someone who isn't afraid to be honest.
2006-10-12 16:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Scooter Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on his reason and if you can trust him otherwise. Use you good judgement.
He may have lied to keep you and now he feels comfortable with you..
Or he could just be a jerk.
You know him best, use that judgement to see if it is something he woud do.
2006-10-12 16:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by Rx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your call.
Can you accept that ?
Is he good enough for this lies ?
Is he capable of telling more other lies ? Is he a liar all the time ?
Is he good enough for more other lies ?
Sounds like he is a player, what makes you think he will only settle on you ?
2006-10-12 16:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by Just_curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first go to the doctor and then ask him why he lied and what the point was and if you still feel that isnt good enough then leave there are plenty fish in the sea and ya'll arent married
2006-10-12 16:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by LiL mAmMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋