i get an almost sadistic sense of "completeion" or "satisfaction" when i've got good reason to be mad at someone, am i just foccusing my aggresion or in need of counseling?
2006-10-12 08:48:00 · 21 answers · asked by ciaran_m_o 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i feel the same way as you, i like it!
2006-10-12 08:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There could be a psychological issue here. It is possible that there could have been a point previously in your life when someone was angry towards you when you felt it was not justified, and therefore to make up for that feeling you are channelling this now. It may be an idea to think about times where you have felt people have not been just towards you and try to either deal with the issues yourself or even talk to the person to clear your consious.
2006-10-12 08:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by MrKcuf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well aggression gives a sense of feeling good, but it never lasts because eventually it will always come back to us.
You can solve the problem by using the anger to get your needs met. For example: Unhappy at work? Take your anger and find a better job.
2006-10-12 08:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u feel "happiness" from doing something negative, it is Temporary...that means u have to keep doing more and more things that can end up badly, for you or for someone else, and that's just not good...common sense wise, u know? =T
counseling/therapy would be helpful, but also just use your head. when u purposely Focus on Positive, Healthy things, you will see that u can be happier for a longer period of time, and have a sense of comfort and calmness, instead of trying to satisfy a "hunger" of sorts for a temporary high...this is the same as doing drugs that are harmful for the body and health, but can make you "feel good".. it is temporary, there harmful, therefore negative and bad to continue.
good luck, and i hope u can learn for yourself, what is healthy, good, right, beneficial, for Yourself as well as Others.
2006-10-12 09:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know....do you ever want ot hury them? If so - counselling, definately! Do you have any idea why you feel like this? How long has this been going on? Do you not like other people much - actually that is OK, many people prefer to be on their own and find others annoy them. But id you seriously find yourself hating and wanting to damage others get help.
2006-10-12 08:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both....I don't get the sense of satisfaction by just having a reason to get mad, I get it when I have kicked their ***, but kicking their *** landed me in anger management, and that pissed me off, but I guess if that's what completes you, you better seek some help...it might end up getting out of control and you might hurt someone or get hurt.Your sense of completion should come from love, and helping someone...you could become the queen of S&M, your sense could be appreciated in that world..lol
2006-10-12 09:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think it is strange at all. I think you are focusing your aggression.
Ever have make-up sex (you know the kind where you give in to the argument just to be done with it , but part of you is still a little ticked) Good stuff!!!
Better question - ever been married????? HA!
2006-10-12 08:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by leonsmom1102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe neither--if you're really concerned you may want to check with a mental health counseling. You're probably normal--which means 'weird like the rest of us.' Unless there are repercussions or negative consequences to your feelings....they're just feelings. You're entitled to feel any way that you want to. I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-10-12 08:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its a very strong feeling, you might need counseling but if it is every day kind of thing that isnt that serious, then just try to relax.
2006-10-12 08:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by Wite Out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds sadistic, u might need counselling
2006-10-12 10:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you realize what you are doing and do not act on it, else seek counseling
2006-10-12 08:50:26 · answer #11 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋