hello, I was with my ex for 7 years and he was a mean man, very abusive, i went on to try to have babies with him, awful i know, but i thought this would make him happy, anyways, we had no luck, he went to the doc and was fine and we were in the middle of testing me when i left him. As far as our testing got i was good to go, but im really worried that i may not be able to have any kids because we used no protection for about 4 yrs and he came everytime in me, shouldn't i have gotton pregnant one of those times?!..Some people have told me that some womens eggs are picky about sperm, or sometimes the sperm and egg just dont match up..is this crap or somewhat true?
2006-10-12 08:36:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Let's call it "divine intervention" and consider yourself blessed you don't have children with that monster....
2006-10-12 08:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your friends said weren't true. First of all let me say you did a good thing by leaving him, and......................Thank God you didn't have kids with him! But really though, pregancy is a beautiful thing and your body has to be relaxed and in the moment. I have heard that if you are tensed or "trying too hard" it won't happen, kinda mind over matter thing i guess. But when I got pregnant it was during at time when all I thought about was my husband and how much I loved him. No other concerns or worries. I hope you find the right guy and all but don't stress off of it. If you aren't married, having kids can be difficult so enjoy life and enjoy yourself. Your time will come!
2006-10-12 08:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by msp 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is true is that some women get pregnant before the hat hits the floor and others don't get pregnant at all. If you were under a lot of stress due to his nature, and then if you are one who is a bit more difficult to become pregnant, then it is conceivable that those factors prevented you from getting pregnant. It does not mean that if you were in a good, loving and positive relationship that you wouldn't get pregnant. Too, if I were you and could afford it, I'd complete the physical testing to see whether there is a chance of NOT getting pregnant.
2006-10-12 08:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by William T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so I am sick of people saying that stress keeps you from getting pregnant...because there have beens studies and stress was not linked to woman not being able to get pregnant. I would not worry too much, cause i had unprotected sex with my ex for like 3 yrs and never got pregnant, but with my husband now, I have been pregnant 3 times(with one child) and we have PLENTY of stress in our lives from the ex wife. i also changed my eating habits and took better care of myself after getting together with my husband, which may have led to being able to get pregnant easier. Good luck!! No worries
2006-10-12 08:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that is a good question, I never thought of that. My husband and I have been trying for 6months and no luck yet. My Dr. doesn't want to do a fertility test until it had been close to a yr, but your question also makes me wonder.
2006-10-12 08:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by mghv0002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The stress is what causes you to not get pregnant. That and freaking mercy of God that you didnt create a child with that monster.
Once you find the right guy and settle down and relax and are content, you'll get pregnant before you know it.
2006-10-12 08:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnancy does not happen all the time just because you have unprotected sex. It is just right timing. It is all apart of nature. if you are good to go then all you have to do is just relax and take it slow and eventually you will land up pg.
2006-10-12 09:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by DO IT! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could have intercourse all 3 days he's homestead and attempt to stay comfortable the finished time in case you're ovulating. i could tell him to not (i'm sorry) excitement himself for some days before he comes homestead so as which you have a solid volume of sperm to your efforts. i've got not got any remedies for you that may assist you conceive. i've got tried all of them and none worked for me.
2016-10-16 03:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋