I am in a state from last 50 days, I just want to die. this feeling is NOT bcoz of any FAILURE / disappoiintment. Further I have no responsibilty from family side or no dependents.
Since I have no reason to survive I am not understanding Y to live ? treid to kill myself but failed. Anyway I am trying again, but before that wish to if anybody else felt this way in their life ? and what did they ? why do they servive ?
2006-10-12 08:06:26 · 30 answers · asked by Wanna D 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You should survive because Life is precious. You only get to live it once and you are throwing it away because you met an obstacle in your life. You can solve your problems.... Just talk to anyone who cares for you or maybe through a o\hotline. Take up a religion... Christianity and I guarantee that you will feel loved and needed.
God Bless You.
2006-10-12 20:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This psychological condition or a state of mind is largely spread amongst the world`s societies, it is like the mind disease of the modern humanity. People just don`t have a reason to exist.
They lack a purpose. A motivation. An inspiration.
Some find those in making a career or rearing up children.
Some are looking for something more sporitual, something less transcient. They don`t find it in the static religion. They don`t find it even on ebay, and they dispear.
But, there is one place, where just a few dare to look for it. It is the place where everything they need resides - in themSelves.
For the majority of people the ancient saying "know yourself" means so much as to adore their reflection in the mirror and make a stylish hairdo.
Yet, the treasury remains untouched, the inmost sun remains hidden, the light of which can out shine the midday star in the sky.
People don`t understand methaphors and mistical riddles, they never had. And they are not interested in them anymore.
People need to feel it, to see it, to touch the Divine.
I am astonished, that despite Carl Gustav Jung`s thorought and detailed exploration and explanation of the process of self knowledge and traversing into one`s own unconsciouss, almost no one paid any attention and regards to him.
And if only the people knew what they were missing, they would be astonished of their ignorance even more.
2006-10-12 09:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ateviel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually have felt this way before and have wondered many times why on earth am I here. It is a very confusing question to ask yourself and honeslty there is no way to really answer it. Over the years I have come to realize that I do have a purpose in this world. Even though I do not know at this time what it is, I know that eventually someday I will realize why I am here and discover my purpose in this world.
You have a purpose in this world as well. Life can definetely be very tough at times and often times you feel like there is no way out but honestly no matter how bad the situation is, there are many people out there that love you and will be there for you. You are not alone in this world. Killing yourself is not the answer and a lot of people look at it as being very selfish and I doubt that that is how you want to be remembered. Please do some soul searching and try to change the things that you are not happy with in your life. There is always no matter what a different approach to everything in your life.
Please re-think how you are feeling.
2006-10-12 08:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is complicated, because we are without details of your background. First, call a suicide prevention hot line when you feel this way. You need counseling to help you figure this out, and you should be on an anti-depressant. Secondly, don't be weak. Life is not for the faint-hearted. Get ahold of yourself. - On a more serious note, life is really short. - I have known 3 VERY CLOSE people who committed suicide. It was terrible. Please, know that today may have a dark cloud hanging around, but the sun will shinier tomorrow. Life is good. What you put in to life is what you get out of it. - Try to be positive and take walks, talk to a friend, loved ones, or a counselor. Everyone has thoughts of suicide from time to time, it is common. Everyone in the world has looses, disappointments, and failures, or whatever. We are all human. Maybe you need a vacation or change. There is not enough of your history to understand your condition. Please e-mail me if you want to talk. Good luck, and cheer up.
2006-10-12 08:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by bobbie e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, how do you FAIL to kill yourself? Obviously you want to live because you are asking for help. Why did you say 50 days ago? Why not a couple of months ago or a few weeks past? Why are you so specific about the time? What happened 51 days ago? You say you need a reason to live? I will give you a reason to live. Live to see what happens tomorrow. If none of this or whatever these other people have said changed your mind, then could you please leave a note willing all of your posessions to ron at RJINSANJO@Yahoo.com ? You won't be needing them.
2006-10-12 08:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by rjinsanjo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to look back at any problems in the past or worry about the future. Just think about living in the present... this moment, this day, this environment.
Allow your mind to concentrate only on what you are seeing and hearing right now. Take it all in. No matter where you are, what you are seeing or what you are hearing, there is joy there.
Concentrate on the beauty that is nature, the elegance of the birds in flight, the nonchalance of the of the wind blowing through the trees.
There is fulfillment in just being. Marvel at the world that is before you.
You don't need a purpose to live. You are. That's enough.
2006-10-12 08:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. It's not worth it bro. There's gotta be someone you can talk to. Take it one day at a time. I'm a loner and I don't have any friends--partly because I choose to be that way--but y'know what? I don't care. I don't care what anybody thinks of me. I'm happy being alone. Sure, I look forward to the day when I'll have friends but for now I could care less if people like me or not. I go my own way and do my own thing because that is what makes me feel good. I don't know what your problem is but it's your cross in life. I hated myself because I was lonely and wanted to die but then I outgrew all of that because I realized I could make something positive out of it. That is what you need to do...make something positive out of your troubles and live on. Embrace life. You can embrace death all you want when you're dead but you're alive now and it's time to live. Trust me, you're going to outgrow all of this in time but you just have to get through it. Peace.
2006-10-12 08:16:06 · answer #7 · answered by Harry Manback 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have alot to live for! Get out, help someone in need! If you can't find anyone close to where you live, trying going to the MS Gulf Coast or the New Orleans area....those people could use ALOT of help! Just remember you were put on the face of the earth for a reason! But that reason is not going to fall out of the sky! What good can you do anyone, if your dead?? Ready to meet your maker?? I hope so, if your planning on killing yourself!
Life is precious! But life is also what you make of it! So get out there and make something of your life!!
2006-10-12 08:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really hope you don't mean this. Everyone has a reason tho live. They have family and friends and people who need them. You may not think so but it is true. It sounds to me like you need to talk to someone about the feelings you are having, someone who is better qualified to help you than we are here. Since I don't know you I cannot make you stop what you say you are going to do, all I can say is there will be people left behind having to deal with what you are doing. Talk to someone, what could it hurt.
2006-10-12 08:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by Tammy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be depressed for no reason at all. If you can lift the depression, it will become more clear why to survive.
But you have to get help until you can successfully treat the depression. Call a suicide hotline, they can get you the help you need until you start to feel better.
In the USA:
1-800-SUICIDE* 1-800-273-TALK
1-800-784-2433* 1-800-273-8255
You can also walk into any Emergency room and tell them you are having suicidal thoughts, and they will find a place for you to go and be treated.
2006-10-12 08:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋