Well, me and my bf known each other for almost a year and have been having sex for about 4 months now. maybe 3 times a day (when we see each other) and he has never been able to last more than 15 mins and that when his been drinking. Any other time it's maybe 5 mins. It's really good-while it last. He told me once that with all his ex's he use to be able to go an hour or so. Could I just be that good, seriously, he said once that it may just be too good. So what can I do to keep him from cumming so fast? Is there anything I can do? I can't help it if I look good and I'm good in bed. I don't want him to take any pills and stuff like an old man he's only 23, me 19, so what else is there that we can do?? I'm just getting soo tired of him being a 1 min man!
2006-10-12 07:50:51 · 7 answers · asked by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You could have him masturbate and ejaculate right before intercourse with you. It usually takes a man a bit longer to ejacutate the second time. The average man doesn't last that long. Why not have him pleasure you thru oral sex or clitoral stimulation first, then have intercourse? This way you have been satisfied and can just enjoy the sensations of the intercourse. You could also try a 'prolong gel' that you apply to the penis that numbs it. This would also make him last longer.
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2006-10-12 08:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try taking it a bit slower. Like if you see he's almost ready to blow, make him pull out and do some teasing, then get right into it again. You'll know better what works and doesn't work for him- and it'll take some time to get him into the habit of lasting longer.
Is part of the problem you not being satisfied in that short amount of time? When he's done, there's plenty he can do for you that will help with that. He's still got hands!
2006-10-12 07:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ashlee S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the best ways to have longer sexual experiences it to alternate sexual activity. Mix it up. Oral, fingering, massage, intercourse, change positions, back to oral, kissing, g-spot massage with his fingers. Make sure you have your orgasms first and then let him.
A good technique to make a man able to last longer is, when you are having sex or when he masturbates, have him bring himself to he feels his orgasm is near and then stop all stimulation. Repeat this 6 times and on the 7th he can have his orgasm. It will be a mind blowing orgasm....
This is practiced in tantra, where men learn to worship the woman as a goddess.....
You can read, "Idiot's Guide to Tantra" together
2006-10-12 08:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by easinclair 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a lasso or a ring, They can often hold it off for a while. Just be carefull that you will be able to get it off when it it time.
2006-10-12 07:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Cid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They make some cream that will numb his penis a little and allow for longer sections. Can be found in your local pharmacy.
2006-10-12 07:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by thetexaspsycho2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a w*nk an hour before you get down to real sex
2006-10-12 09:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to think about random things when he's about to (you Know) my husband thinks about all the bills he has to pay it works everytime... good luck
2006-10-12 07:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋