2006-10-12 07:38:10 · 14 answers · asked by Liz A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not too much.
She has to realize it herself.
Maybe introduce them and see what happens.
Maybe she'll realize what you see from a distance.
Years ago I was obsessed with the most gorgeous guy
on earth - tall, nice bod, reddish brown longish hair, bright blue eyes.
He never noticed me cuz I was much younger.
Years later we finally met and I found out what a waste
of a human being he was.....druggie alcoholic.
Too bad for him. He loses.
Good luck.
2006-10-12 07:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by COOKIE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's interesting how you say "he'll never notice her". Obviously, you've made this opinion based on your opinion about her, most likely looks. How do you know for sure he shares your opinion of your friend?
If you truly care about your friend, you'll allow her the freedom to pursue this person and will even champion her cause. You might even try and help her. And as her friend, if she's rebuffed by him, then you'll be there for her when she's heartbroken.
You're not a friend, if you interject some predisposed negativity based on your own assumptions. Allow her to be her.
Peace
2006-10-12 14:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing that ou can do if she is obsessed with him. If it is an infatuation, then there is little hope, you can try introducing her to another guy, or maybe even try to tell her that you are afraid that her obsession is a little un-nerving, & you are afraid that she is going to get hurt because it is not healthy. I would love to have a friend as caring as you, but i don't think that i would listen to you if i were truly into a guy. Hopefully she can move past him & give up. Who knows maybe this guy will eventually notice her, so your second alternative would be to step back, & pray for your friend not to get hurt....Good luck to you....
2006-10-12 14:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her be.
Its like crushing on a celebrity, she can dream right.
If its to like the fatal attraction point then- take action
2006-10-12 14:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by ♥kailababy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her be because you never know what could happen....she might end the friendship if she thinks your trying to do something so just let her be
2006-10-12 14:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. That's the best way to keep a friend.
2006-10-12 14:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by flip4449 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know the guy will never notice her?
2006-10-12 14:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by trueblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it take its course its probably just a phase and when it all goes bad tell her "i told you so" saying that always makes me feel better
2006-10-12 14:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by chuy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you get sick of hearing about him, just tell her to chill out
2006-10-12 14:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave her alone and she'll get over it. Who ever said it's your place to do something .
2006-10-12 14:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by talk2much 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋