she tells not to worry,but i been waiting for this moment for so long. i try having a baby with my ex-girlfriend and nothing happen. now that it happen,the girl that i am with now dont wanna have it.
2006-10-12 07:33:23 · 9 answers · asked by FELIX C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
tell her how you feel. and that things will work out. if not you raise that baby yourself. you got rights too. and then tell her if she doesnt want a baby dont have sex or use protection. so many babies are being killed because of the mothers bad decisions. they dont deserve it.
2006-10-12 07:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by jamiehamster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many things come into play. I am pro life. (I do think it's ok to abort a baby in some cases. but should only be suggest by a dr)
it is her body. but it is your baby to! you can't make her have the baby, but just sit her down & tell her how you feel While reminding her that you will support her in her choice. YOU DESERVE TO BE HEARD! offer to adopt the child if she's not ready to be a mom. maybe you wanna get married & be a family. just be honest, open & not judgemental of her. This is prolly very hard for her to. Maybe you telling her what you would like will change her mind! for future reference this should be talked about before you get down 'n dirty. it is an issue. I told my husband before we ever got down that I do not like abortion & would never do that to myself. Abortion is NOT a form of birth control. No Matter What You Believe!
2006-10-12 07:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by bubbagaloosch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is not sure about what you feel or she is just scared. If you are sure you can support your baby and your girl, just talk to her. Ask her if she knows and exactly can imagine what the abortion is and how is it done. It is practically killing a healthy baby. Tell her if she doesn't want to take care of the baby you will do it. Also tell her that it's not only hers. The baby belongs to you as much as to her...
Wich you good luck man...
2006-10-12 07:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Vladimir Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your baby too and I think your girlfriend has issues!!! Tell her she got pregnant and abortion is now available for simple" I changed my mind" purposes. Sounds like she needs to grow up and if you want this baby you need to sit her down and talk things out. I wouldn't try to get her pregnant again...
2006-10-12 07:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting married and committing to the be with a woman for the rest of her life, holding down a good fulltime job with benefits, paying all your bills on time, and being reponsible and loving.
Once you are mature enough and responsible to do all this, then its time to have children.
2006-10-12 07:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by EmLa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately it's her decision--she's the one who has to carry the baby for 9 months and nurse it. I'm sorry that you're upset about it though. My advice is to be supportive and not pressure her to have kids anytime soon. If you think she'll never be ready to have children with you, then you may need to start seeing other women til you find one that wants to be with you for the long-haul and wants the same things you do.
2006-10-12 07:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats sad maybe she does not know how u feel about having a child.Have u tried to talk to her.Maybe she wants some support.But at the end of the day its her body
2006-10-12 08:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her to concider your feelings?Are you ready to settle down or will you make yourself ready?Do you love her?Does she love you?Talk to her again,,face to face.You can also tell her that you are willing to raise the baby or for her to concider adoption.Will your family help out?Good luck.
2006-10-12 07:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to not have it done and that you will adopt it(if you wanna) and tell her to look at all her options with a consular
2006-10-12 07:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by *Pooka* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋