I was friends with this girl, good friends. She helped me out of a really bad relationship. My ex happened to be her boyfriends best friend. After she broke up with him, she went out and started dating my ex. I have it on good authority that nothing ever happened between them while I was with him, or she was with her boyfriend. I have since told her that I will not speak to her while she is still with this guy. The worst part is, she cheated on him, it got back to him, and he blamed me for it. Sent me a text message calling me a "stupid, jealous b****." I knew about it, i told one person, who doesn't know anyone involved but me, and could care less. Am I right for telling her that I want nothing to do with her, while she continually tries to get me to forgive her and accept her choice? And why is my ex blaming her cheating getting back to him on me?
2006-10-12 07:28:07 · 6 answers · asked by thegunz7304 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she was your friend then she wouldn't have gone out with him in the first place. He might be blaming you because you don't know what she is telling him. I wouldn't be friends with her anymore. You did the right thing. I would just ignore them and try not to let them other you(I know easier said then done). Shes honestly not your friend. Freinds don't do that to each other. I hope this helps and feel free to email me(i'm going through the same thing right now). Good luck.
2006-10-12 07:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by Heather A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to do that then she isn't a real friend....Ive gone threw the same before..... Having nothing to do with her is the best thing to do....There are better friends that wont treat you like that
2006-10-12 14:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told her what you told her. Your ex was just being immature. But remember one thing that god forgives you for your sins so therefore you should find it in your heart to forgive her.
2006-10-12 14:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Shalla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from both of them. Ignore them, if my friend went out with my ex then they are not my friend.
2006-10-12 14:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not talk to either one of the parties in that case seem if she cheated on him and he jumped on you.It almost sounds like they are a team in a sence.
2006-10-12 14:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by sweetmissrikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would NEVER be friends with her again. Ex's are OFF limits in my world.
2006-10-12 14:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋