every time we have sex hi comes to fast like in 30sec
2006-10-12 07:08:49 · 9 answers · asked by lili 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He doesn't know his body at ALL!
he should be able to last longer than you do. He should be able to wait for you to go off for as many times as you want, and then when you're pretty well satisfied, THEN he can let go.
I was with a woman one time, and this was probably the most I've ever seen, but this woman came 23 times. This is one session, no breaks. It lasted for about 2 hours I think. And she did it a couple more times after that, but I 'officially' stopped counting at 23!
I lasted for her, and then I HAD to tell her that I was starting to get tired.....she wore me out....lol....and then I was able to finish, but that is how he should do for you. He should wait, but he should enjoy being with you. It takes practice. Sex isn't about the ending, it's about everything in between!
He doesn't get this, but he's going to have to start working on himself and teach himself a little control. He has to do this pretty much himself.
At least you seem like you are trying to be patient, and that's SWEET of you.......pardon the pun, but, keep that up! lol I hope he figures this out so you can enjoy being with him too.
He would make a good cowboy tho. They think 8 seconds is a good ride!
:)
2006-10-12 07:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the routine so he does not know what to expect. Try to avoid ejaculation. If he feels he is about to come, stop what you are doing and wait a while. Make it a game: have sex but not allowed to come. He should master his load, so to speak. Kamasutra is specialized in this subject, read about it and make sex more spiritual with attention focused to other parts of the body as well.
2006-10-12 14:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by Avatar13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he,s a young,inexpierenced beginner. talk to him, tell him what you , yourself like,and expierement.lethim 'bed pet' you repeatedly and take breaks between b'bed prtting'sesions.when the time to trot comes , well gallop yourself. he aparently needs a woman about fifteen years older than he is to givve him lessons. if you arange this, you will both be the winners
2006-10-12 14:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play games where you don't quite go there . Like exercise it will strengthen
the muscles and such like holding your bladder .
2006-10-12 14:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf lasts like 5minutes, when im' just getting my groove on lol so Let me know when you find out! LOL
2006-10-12 14:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by missme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and find someone who lasts. You can't be stuck dealing with that if it leaves you unsatisfied. If you're looking any time soon, Juan can satisfy you.
2006-10-12 14:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by Juan Valdez 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he should last longer the second time
2006-10-12 14:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because he doesn't know what he's doing.
Or, he wants to get it over with you really quick.
2006-10-12 14:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well thats his problem, l for one take 30min, just for a quicky, but he has to focus more on pleasing you, instead of himself. thats the trick.
2006-10-12 14:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋