For the last couple of nights when my BF stays over he goes through my stuff when I am sleeping and calls numbers back in my phone. He also is checking my email account and forwarding my messages to his email. It is pissing my off because now its like I don't want to fall asleep before him. This is really affecting me and I am thinking of leaving him because of this. What the heck would you do?
2006-10-12 07:04:06 · 13 answers · asked by HappyMama 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He obviously has jealousy issues. Have you given him reason to think your cheating? If not, then confront him with it. If he doesn't stop then say goodbye. If he can't respect your privacy then he just doesn't respect you.
Also, someone who is inherently jealous generally has a tendency to have a reason for it, like being a cheater himself. He may be a cheat so he thinks you're a cheat too.
2006-10-12 07:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has serious trust issues. Have you confronted him with this? What does he say?
He sounds like a stalker in the making: next, he'll be following you to work, the grocery store, etc. Unless he's willing to seek help, you need to get out now.
2006-10-12 07:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave so fast his head would spin. Then I would demand he delete all the stuff he copied from you and give you proof that it has been deleted, because you don't want to bring criminal charges against him. That is so wrong it's not even funny.
FP
2006-10-12 07:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave his a$$!! It will only get worse! Why would he need to check through all of your stuff any way!
2006-10-12 07:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by bdbarbie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he doesnt seem to trust which is not good .. trust is the most important thing even though hard to earn.. so if he cant trust you maybe youll have to find someone who will
2006-10-12 07:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by treez1976 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it, or it will end and you will spend the rest of your life alone and regretting it. Give him more of what he wants O A BDSM Outdoor etc and reassure him and stop the whining ok xx
2006-10-12 07:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
awfull!!! what the hell?? he has no rights to check on u! u don't do that... talk to him and say that that is very annoing and u don't like it... it's not like u're hideing smth... it's just that it's not normal and very weird... getting into ur private life... block everything and then u'll see what will be... he has no right to make u incomfortable... talk to him...! good luck there.
2006-10-12 07:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a bad habit!
2006-10-12 07:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by stever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him that you know hes looking through your stuff and tell him it hurts you.then if he denied thoughs things then you should leave him because he doesnt trust you
2006-10-12 07:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by ♥kristin♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him!!!!!!!!
He doesn't trust you, he thinks your doing something bad so dump his insecure @ss!
Trust me, it'll only get worst, end the relationship.
2006-10-12 07:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋