My girlfriend and I have a relatively good relationship but she doesn't like to go "downtown" alot. I want her to do it more how can I ask her without coming off as a a$$whole?
2006-10-12 06:54:49 · 10 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you go 'down town' on her!?
If no, then you better get busy, if you expect her to do it to you.
If you do, then you need to just tell her what you like and don't like. You have to be able to talk about your sex life.....kinky stuff, sweet stuff, experimental stuff........everything, and you have to talk openly about it. No attitude, no issues or whatever.
You have to get her to trust you, so you have to let her get use to things. She may find that she really likes it. Who knows, but you have to bring this up to her and talk about it.
Just be open and tell her that it would feel really good for you and would she do it for you, and then see what she says.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-12 07:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say try going "down town" on her more but if you already do and she still doesn't like to do it for you then you should go to a sex store like lovers package and get some stuff. They got all kinds of different flavored oils and gels and stuff like that some of them are even warming but they taste good which i think is part of the reason why a lot of girls don't like to do that. Also you could try just whipped cream if your to shy to go to a sex shop and don't want to spend a lot of money. One other quick idea is maybe suggest 69 then you don't just seam like the jerk who wants her to go down on him because you'll be doing it for her too.
2006-10-12 06:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by crazycutie01 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just keep on going downtown on her and forget about it. She will "come" around.
2006-10-12 06:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about returning the favor before the favor ya dig?
2006-10-12 07:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by treez1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight-up tell her that you like it when she goes downtown, and that she should more often.
2006-10-12 06:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fisrt cut off your pubes make it NEAT. 2nd wash. 3rd make it taste better. say hey i have a fun idea. lets use whip cream.
4th CHANGE DIET! eating fruit apples for instance make you jizzz taste better. if you eat greenz it makes it tate worst. crazy huh
2006-10-12 07:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Naddo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and be gald you found this out before being married and trapped.
2006-10-12 08:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she does go down, moan a lot and say "Man, you are so good at that".
2006-10-12 07:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by Alfonsio Ledbetter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beg let tha **** happen. It'll work!
2006-10-12 08:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her and go out with me.. i dont have any problems with that
2006-10-12 07:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by Kelli T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋