2006-10-12 06:53:59 · 41 answers · asked by jahosh b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are not engaged or married, then don't sweat it. Date if you like. Date other girls if you like. If you get attached to a girl who is less attached to you, your heading for heartache, and maybe worse. You don't own her. But, neither does she own you.
Feel free to ask her questions if you want. But DO NOT get upset with anything she may say in return, whether you know she is lying or telling the truth, or whether she says she loves you, or you are a plaything, or just friends. Be cool! Learn and grow. Don't get a hang-up about this. No vows have been taken before God and your community so none can be broken.
2006-10-12 07:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nick â? 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Im assuming youre not ok with this since you are asking us what to do about it.
If you really care about her and want to be the only guy she talks to on the phone
let her know it bothers you that she has male friends
If she cares about how you feel then she will stop talking to them to make you happy.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be the only guy your woman is talking too.
This has to go both ways though
you cant talk to girls either.
2006-10-12 07:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when guys think girlfriends cant have guy friends. If she talks to boys on the phone make sure it's only friends. There is nothing wrong with a girlfriend having guy friends. Guys are sometimes really insecure....that's why they make a big deal when girls have guy friends.
Do you have girl friends....who you talk to over the phone? I bet you do. There's no difference.
2006-10-12 06:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Yessenia A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is not let it bother you or think about it too much. Most likly she is just having fun. Never trap a girl, just think how you would feel if the table was turned and you were talking on the phone with girls. Just let her make her own decisions whether good or bad. You cant control anyones life but your own.
2006-10-12 06:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by sportsfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if your with this girl just to pass the time and have fun with no intent for marriage or a long lasting relationship then just have fun and let it end when it does. But if your looking for a long relationship move on and find someone that cares enough about your feelings to not hurt.
2006-10-12 06:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by abel g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's just talking to them as friends and you do the same, you need to respect that you both have the right to have friends that are the opposite sex. Keep in mind sometimes it seems like girls are flirting, when they're really just joking around. If she's acting too flirty and it makes you uncomfortable, talk to her about it. If she doesn't respect your feelings, then she doesn't respect you and it might be time to move on.
2006-10-12 07:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for another girlfriend if she tends to spend more time on the phone with others than with you. If you two were doing things together, she would not have time or reason to WANT to talk to others- what are you missing in your relationship to cause her to go elsewhere for communication with others?
2006-10-12 06:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by robert g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out the numbers from her phone, ring the boys and tell them to get out of town. Then take you misses to the back and give her a good hiding. Trust me it works, if it doesnt i'll eat my hat
2006-10-12 06:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by Vas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she knows that you know about it, and she doesnt care how you feel, dump her lousy @ss. She is not worth it.
If she doesn't know that you know about it, tell her how you feel, and ask her not to do it.. because it make you feel that she doesn't care. Don't tell her you are jealous. Make it clear that you are NOT jealous, in fact. Just tell her that you aren;t gonna put up with any bs, and that if she continues to phone cheat on you, that she is probably cheating on you in other ways as well. A gilr like that is not worth your time or energy.
Hope my answer helped you. Good luck, buddy..
2006-10-12 06:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by Cyber Spacer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the boot... girls without even knowing it become attached very quick, and that other guy has other intentions.. would you phone some girl just to talk cause you are her friend,NO. and you know why, cause you would rather be out with the guys.. this guy is trying to give your chick a little more than good conversation.. doctor Ruth out.
2006-10-12 06:57:37 · answer #10 · answered by sensei D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋