I'm falling for someone who is married and all kids have grown up. He is bout 20 yrs older then me. I'm not interested in marriage and looking for companion, and when i'm with him i feel so secure. His touch was so comforting. I told him i'm attracted to him and he seem to put me off but later that night he kiss me. The next day he do again. Now i'm really confused.I know its not a good thing to do but he is jus nothing short of my everything...
2006-10-12 06:46:44 · 10 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your lack of morals is most disturbing as is his. You are a loser. So is he. You're both made for one another. Go forth...procreate...breed more immoral people.
The definition of "trash"
2006-10-12 06:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be someone's mistress? Why are you going to break up his marriage when your not interested in marriage? That's kind of selfish don't you think. He will always put you off b/c he has a wife, whether his kids are grown up or not. 20 years or more is how long he's probably been married. He just wants a little excitement in his life and once he's bored or his wife finds out, it will be as if you never existed. If you don't believe me, ask him where this is going? See his response.
2006-10-12 06:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[S]tay away from any more intimate touching. Just keep it in the communication world at best. I went through this last year, almost left my family for a woman 10 years younger. Someone will always get hurt - you, him, his wife, his kids. No he needs to make the decisions for his life, and you need to find someone that will give what he gives but more 100%. People already tied up in relationships can not give you his all even though you want to give him it. Both of you need to respect the vows that he made to his wife many years ago. Don't do it, someone will get hurt at the end of the day.
2006-10-12 06:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by [B] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you would want someone that much older and emotionally unavailable? What are you looking for? Security in a father figure? People do get hurt in situations like this...yourself most of all. Be honest as to what you are looking for.
2006-10-12 06:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm thrilling i've got been attracted to and equipped friendships with some Aquarians, yet i've got in no way dated any. yet i ought to utterly see that as a deadly appeal... MY deadly appeal has been Pisces adult men... they are attracted to me like flies to a mild! it consistently starts off so properly and leads to finished disaster! For me, it an exceedingly undesirable pairing
2016-10-16 03:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know its women like you that make it hard for us married women to keep a faithful man. You just waltz right in without any regard as to who you hurt or even destroy. Go find someone who is available and leave the married men the hell alone. You may be playing with fire girl. say you get caught with him by his wife and she blows your head off with a gun or something like that. just something to think about. i know thats what i would do if i caught my hubby messing with someone else
2006-10-12 08:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a pretty young lady. He is married and will probably never leave his wife.. He is someone elses everything . I hate to be so blunt but..... you can chase after someone who will never truly be yours or find someone a little closer to your age not someone who has kids your age!!!
2006-10-12 07:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by treez1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of all the men in the world, this is the one you've fallen for??
Okayyyyy
2006-10-12 06:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont last be a homewreacker if u want . but seriously dont base your future on this. plus chances are hell keep his wife and not tell her. remember Amy Fisher, you dont want that now do you
2006-10-12 06:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by bighcorleone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone......he's MARRIED! Do you want to be a homewreaker?!
2006-10-12 06:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by ilvtnt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋