We are good friends and we like each other and i wanna be with him but we live in too different states and we are both in relationships. but when we get around each other we act like we are together. Is there a way to deal with sumthing like this with out hurting any1. we dont talk as much but we do have that connection where he can come to me if he has a problem or if he just needs a friend to talk to. im always there fa him and if i need him i can talk to him also. But i have a man that loves and will do anything fa me and the same for him but i just dont want to hurt him but i have feelings for him but i lust the other guy and i think im gettin to the point where im having a little feelings for the other guy.
2006-10-12 06:44:49 · 5 answers · asked by kim 1 in Travel ➔ United States ➔ Orlando
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2006-10-12 07:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by btlrboyz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant. there is no way that someone will come out of this unscathed. its a difficult situation, but you just have to say how you feel. just make sure that you are prepared for the answer either way. because there always is the off chance that this guy wont feel the same way that you do, coupled with the long distance and the stickiness of the situation ( with you both in relationships).
2006-10-12 13:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by rena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get involved with this other guy before you both break off your current relationships, neither one of your is getting a worthy partner.
You would simply be getting a person that cheats on their relationship, and so would he. So you should do one of the following:
(a) cut your ties to this new guy, avoid him and live your life
(b) cut ties to the old guy and let the new guy know how you feel , of course you could wind up with neither guy in that case.
(c) go ahead and "fool around" with the new guy, treat your current guy like the fool, and eventually, you will be the fool.
2006-10-13 11:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by tweetymay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to deal with this without hurting anyone is to end the long distance relationship, ASAP......
otherwise you are opening Pandora;s box......and take the risk of losing everything.....
2006-10-12 13:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by jrsgurl62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's looking for an easy lay. I'm sure you're not the only one.
2006-10-12 13:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋