ok theres this girl thats always being mean to me for no reason. it started a few weeks ago at school whenever i pass by she would always say stuff to me like go away your ugly i dont like you and last year she would be nice to me and when school stared she was being mean to me what should i do? i tried talking to her i would say whats ur problem why dont you like me? but it didn't work?
2006-10-12 06:42:03 · 19 answers · asked by Marlen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Simply ignore her.
2006-10-12 06:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? This is often typical in 4th or 5th grade and it will pass if you just ignore her. If you are older, then you might want to ask her why she has such a mean streak? And if she says you are ugly or go away, tell her you are sorry she's having a bad day and ignore her. Not everyone is going to like you and you won't like everyone, either, but you need to have courtesy and be polite.It takes some kids longer to learn this. If she is being a bully, you might talk to the school counselor and alert them about her. She may have some bad home life or other emotional problems. They can help her. One other thought...she might be jealous of you.
2006-10-12 13:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being too nice girl! who is she to judge what's ugly or what's beautiful? I'd been in this situation when i was in Pri 4 and it was traumatizing and confusing and i still remember it till today! now i'm 27 yrs old. anyway i can only say that girl is acting crazy. i mean mentally ill. so, if she's acting like such a retard, just treat her as one. Ignore her and be magnanimous about it. Just think - you're obviosly a stronger, more mature person that she is. You'll be better off without a loser friend like her.
2006-10-12 13:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by salut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would completely ignore this person as much as physically possible, and if you do have to be in the same area as her,treat her like she does not exist, Do not react to her do not answer her and under no circumstances do you talk or gossip about her From this second on she is not in your life,You will have to trust me on this, but the best way to destroy any relationship good or bad is to ignore some one. Think how you would feel if some one totally ignored you to the point you did not feel you exist,
2006-10-12 13:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,i had the same problem and confronting them only made it worst for me i found that i gave them a reason to be mean just find a group of people that like you and dont make you feel bad and ignore the other girls
2006-10-12 13:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm...interesting ..may be she secretly likes you but does want to show it. good freindship and relationships start by hatred sumtimes. Its a way of protecting your emotions. Thats one thought...another idea is that she doesn't have anything better to do than hassle you...and for some strange reason gets a buzz out of it. Its hard to know exactly wat her intentions are without knowing her and more about the situation. But wateva her intentions are I think the best way to deal with it...is dont evenmake any comment back...just toatlly blank her..ignore her...girls do not like to be ignored for wat eva reason...may be then she might start showing her normal side or even stop being hot and cold with you. You've tried to tok to her obviously hasn't work..now try ignoring her...see what happens...good luck!
2006-10-12 13:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by lost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is taking her frustrations out on you. Maybe she is feeling bad so she thinks that if she makes fun of you she will feel better. Leave her alone and try to ignore her. She will stop if she sees that it's not having any affect.
2006-10-12 13:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by cows4me79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever she says anything mean to her then say something mean back! Shes not better than you, so stand up for yourself and treat her the same way shes treating you.
2006-10-12 13:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. maybe there's somebody trying to spoilt ur friendship with her... somebody is jealous n talking nonsense abt u to her... why don't u try emailing her since she doesn't wanna talk to u... if this problem still goes on, just ignore her... she's just trying unreasonable...
2006-10-12 13:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by ahsinoriahk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is playing mind games!!!!!
She is probably jelous about something
Drop her and find some great friends
xxxx
2006-10-12 13:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by ballet-babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋