i've always enjoyed doing "girls stuff" alot more and have fun shopping or just hangin' out together chatting about fun stuff. the other night we all got together and sat around chatting about stuff and we started to get silly. they finally asked me if i was gay and if i wanted to be a girl. what should i tell them. i enjoy being friends so much and i don't want to lose their friendship. do you think they'll still like hangin' out together. thanks so much.
2006-10-12 06:38:59 · 10 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It sounds like they've started to put the picture together and are ok with what they're seeing. I'm fairly certain they'll accept you once you put together the pieces for them. Just be open and honest with them.
2006-10-12 07:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they'll like you wethere or not you're gay. Girls tend not to care as much about that sort of thing if you are, and if you're not, yu've still been haniging out with them, so why should that change? Also, just because you like the same stuff they do and you hang out with them doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. That's like saying a girl who has all guy friends is either gay or a whore, that's simply not true.
2006-10-12 13:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, just tell them the truth - are you or aren't you. If they're your "best friends", they should like you for who you are. And besides, don't you want to know if they're really TRUE friends?
If my best buddy tells me he's gay, I wouldn't treat him any differently. And to stop hanging out with him - it ain't gonna happen.
To be quite honest, I know a couple of guys who are openly gay, and they are the NICEST friends I've ever known!
Take care, all right?!
2006-10-12 13:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by ¿What Now? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no not really. if you talk or walk or act gay then ur not try indulging ur self in like guy stuff like beer football and other women. dont take it too hard man if ur not sure bout ur sexuality give it a hard thought before answering to them. if their ur friends they'll understand u and the best way to be friends with them is to be truthful..
2006-10-12 13:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by zico 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u don't want to be a girl thats fine. If u want to be a girl thats fine. If u are gay thats fine too. Just be yourself and if they don't want to be friends with u anymore thats there problem not yours.
2006-10-12 13:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are such a stone cold fag its no even right...
...the gay test is...
...dont look at a cucumber in a different way
ps.change your ******** avatar thats the first clue
2006-10-12 19:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start watching football and get a girlfriend with blonde hair and big fake boobs.
You will be straight in no time.
2006-10-12 14:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by ihatehippies 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Right, you're just a dude with a female avatar who spells his name with an "i".
2006-10-12 13:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by jrayhp 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't know but you change your AVATAR you might not look like a girl
2006-10-12 13:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
they will love you just as much
2006-10-12 13:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋