he is like the only person that that is nice to me he brakes up with me one day tells me dont call him ever but the next day he calls me and begs for me back he loves me so much and i can tell. i love him to ..... but the problem is he is 18 and i am 15 we havent done anything because of the age....i dont want to wait 3 years cuz i love him so much what should i do
2006-10-12 06:34:24 · 21 answers · asked by C...R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First don't listen to the close minded people that say you don't know what love is. In older times people were married and having kids long before they were 15. Not to mention my husband and I have been in love since we were 10 and 12. No I'm not gonna lie we datd others and things like that but we always came back to eachother. You need to talk to him aout how much it hurts you when he keeps going back and forth. If you too love eachother as you think he will look at the pain and decided what he wants for you both. Some times you need to let go to truly love and as much as it hurts it makes it so much better. I wouldn't advise it for this minute but as soon as you feel you have been together long enough to have complete faith that he is going to stick around talk to your parents. Depending on what state you are in sex and or marriage maybe an option. Some states still have age of consent as low as 13. It just all depends on how you both feel. I wish you luck.
And if you let me know what state your in I can get more about your states statitory laws.
2006-10-12 06:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me girl you dont love him as much as you might think. When you get a little older you'll look back and laugh. As long as you dont make any harsh decisions! Think of this if you do "put out" he may not love you as much as you think and leave when he gets it, or maybe, just maybe lets say you come up pregnant can you handle that right now and im 18 myself and know if I were a 18 year old male i would be out! I know your tired or hearing its just puppylove, sometimes at your age its more than that. But if he loves you he can and will wait!
2006-10-12 13:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can't help who they fall in love with. If it's there and you know it's there take control of it and don't be ashamed becasue people will recongnize real and true love. Love is special, but if you are afraid of the age difference and scared of what people might say then if he love you like he say he does then he will wait. Three years isn't that long, just three yeasrs ago i was 15 and it seem as if it was yesterday. Hang in there everything will work out for the best.
2006-10-12 13:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you being underage, and him being considered a legal adult, you need to put sex off for sure. 3 years is not that big of a deal. If there is true love there, he will wait. And to be honest, waiting will make the moment even more special. If he keeps the breaking up and getting back together up, and its bothering you, don't take him back right away. Let him know it bothers you, and it will slow down at least. i was that way with my ex, and when i though that i was gonna loose her, things changed big time! Take your time with a relationship. you are still young and have a LONG LIFE ahead of you.
2006-10-12 13:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by vbeaver31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, at 15 years old, you have no idea what love is. But I understand you have loving feelings for this boy. However, he is of legal age and you are a minor. So a relationship is not going to work out and it puts way too much strain on you both. Concentrate on your education and forget the boys for awhile.
2006-10-12 13:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him, waiting 3 years is nothin', darling! It's good you are holding out for now because of your age, anyway. You'll thank yourself later. 3 years is not a bad difference, it just seems like a lot right now. Down the road it's nothing. I clicked on your question thinking you were going to be 10 years his junior, boy was I wrong!!!
God Bless
2006-10-12 13:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, If he really loves you he will wait until you are of age. You do it and another adult finds out and he could be loving you from prison for stagetory rape.
And with the age difference at that age, you might just end up regretting it later.
So do not let him into talking you into this by saying if you love me you would, cause if you love him you'd protect him from imprisonment.
2006-10-12 13:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same boat i am 16 and mine is 19 only not exactly that type of boat i would be careful don't do something you will regret if you want him back then get him back but don't do something stupid to get him me and my boyfriend have been together a year and almost two months and we haven't done anything and don't plan to until we are married but we still love each other and that's all that matters . please just be careful and by all means WAIT lol
2006-10-12 13:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by formerffagirl05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, believe me I was once 15 yrs old too. Please get away from this guy, he is playing head games with you. I know you don't think you will find anyone else but you will. There are great people out in the world. You are young and need to take this opportunity to be in charge of your life from this aspect, you and only you can make your life better.
Don't take his calls, tell him you are done w/him, look around for supportive friends and family. This sounds like it could be dangerous. Please take my advice.
2006-10-12 13:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend has some sort of emotional issue and needs to see a doctor.
As far as you, you need to end the relationship and don't look back. Like you said he is too old for you. Plus you are 15, you will have plenty of time to date in the future.
2006-10-12 13:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by OohLaLa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋