i have a friend who annoys everyone but is still kinda fun to hang with but one of my bestfriends is trying to drive her of by being mean what should i do?
2006-10-12 06:03:12 · 11 answers · asked by poison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let your friend alienate this girl if she wants, but if you wish to remain her friend, you need to make that known. Don't get in the middle of what's going on with them, and don't let either one of them drag you into it. If they start talking about each other behind their backs to you or try to make you choose sides, just say "I know you two have your differences, but I still want both of you as friends. I don't want to hear anything negative, and I don't want to be involved in the problems you have with each other." If they're true friends, they'll understand and respect your wishes.
2006-10-12 06:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by brainy_blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should tell your friend that some people gets really mad when you play some funny pranks on them, there's people who might take her jokes too personal and then take offense at it instantly. So you need to tell her that she should be careful with certain people and only joke with the ones she knows are gonna take her jokes fine. Simply tell het to slow down a bit and it'll be just fine for everyone, nobody wants to be hated so bad for sth so little like being just a little bit funnier than the average people.
2006-10-12 13:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Beta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be mean use her for what she's good for not being mean but some friends are to be there for a purpose and maybe she's just there for fun.
2006-10-12 13:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation with you girl!I have a friend who no one else of my friends like her,but she also is fun to hang out.She teases everyone.I think that we can't do anything about it.You can hang out with her if she treats you good,if she's good to you.and that's it.And if you cut her out,what you will say to her?That you do that why?Think about it carefully.
2006-10-12 14:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by star to fall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason why you can't have more than one friend. Talk to the mean one and explain how you feel. If she is still mean, you may have to see them separately.
2006-10-12 13:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart on that one. Don't let other people choose your friends for you. Decide if you want to be friends with that girl and stick to your decision. If someone else has a problem with that, then that's THEIR problem.
2006-10-12 13:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lynda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt care if this person annoys others, as long as yall get along and you enjoy their company dont care what others say about them.
2006-10-12 13:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be friends with her. Just dont mix the two groups.
2006-10-12 13:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by not_an_angel_just_a_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever you feel that benenifits the whole, which is everyone at the largest level.
2006-10-12 13:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a friend to her if ur friends don't like her oh well it's all up to you
2006-10-12 13:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋