I am very good looking, outgoing and fun to be around but for some reason I never get approached, they only get intrigued by my tattoos, ask questions and then go on their marry way.
2006-10-12 06:02:14 · 21 answers · asked by Ms. Budweiser 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know what you mean. I'm very shy by nature, and I have a hard time talking to other women. All you can do is try to open up, and go for who you want.
2006-10-12 06:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Most women don't know what they want in guy! You ask any woman what qualities they want in a man and 9 out of 10 will say "Oh, i want a nice, sweet man" when in reality they want a semi decent looking guy, but more importantly a woman doesn't want someone who is kissing their *** treating them like they're the last diamond in the world . A woman likes a challenge someone who is not all over them, they can sense when a man is desparate and that is a turn off for them. Try a more cool relax approach, play hard to get if you have to. The best way to meet people is in net working events, work, school, through other friends, or a dating site. good luck
2016-03-18 08:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, other women might be intimated by you and afraid to ask you out. If you are really attractive and outgoing many women who are secretly interested in you might feel like you are out of their league and shy away from making the first move. Seriously, alot of people lack self confidence and without knowing you may assume that you could have anyone you want so why would you bother with them? You should be more proactive and make it known in a polite and tasteful way that you are interested in someone when you meet them.
2006-10-12 06:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Justme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem lots of women are having including myself. I think that it's just hard to talk to females in general. I'm on a few Yahoo groups and have one of my own on there as well. The problem I find is that there are no women that seem to be local to me. Maybe the ladies where you are can't see that you are into women.
2006-10-16 02:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right it will happen. I was in a marriage for 17 years, have two kids and then a new neighbor moved in next door. I have never felt what I felt in my life when we met each other. We've been together now going on 14 years. Be patient..
2006-10-12 13:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you trying to meet other women?
I think being a lesbian makes it hard to meet oither lesbains if your are not in the gay scene. It is sometimes hard to tell who is and who isn't without talking to them first. I use to have the problem of :"str8" woman being attracted to me and I still find it hard to tell which women are just checking out my clothes and witch are interested in me.
Good luck Get another tatoo that sayS I am R U, maybe that will help.
2006-10-12 06:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by ennui_doux133 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I assume you are a lesbian and if you are good looking, as you say, other lesbians may not know you are a sister. Or they may feel put off by your Tats- personally I like tats and they would not be a problem but to some folks they would be.
Try going to a gay club etc. and meeting other gals.
When you "see" someone for the first time you have no idea what type of personality they have until you take the time to learn it. Sounds to me like folks haven't been taking the time.
Better luck in the future.
2006-10-12 06:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe it's not about WHY you can't meet a woman but WHERE? Where are you when you interact with them? Maybe try joining a group for something you're passionate about or love.
2006-10-12 06:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mooks 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've always found that the best way to meet women is through friends. Like...at my last job, I mentioned in an offhand way that I was interested in girls...and half the other women there started hitting on me! I guess they were curious. I tend to believe most women are bisexual anyway. But I think if you put yourself out there, and let women know how you feel, many will want to check you out.
btw...tatts are sexy. I've got one too.
2006-10-12 06:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
If they've tried to start a conversation with you, it's your move. Maybe the problem is that they may be shy, and try to start a conversation with you. Then you let them go on their merry way when they're done comming up with the same old conversation starters.
2006-10-12 07:37:50 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋