I have a friend who is married but he says he calls chat lines talk to girls but just flirts but never has intentions on meeting up with the woman he talks to although he does get the number and calls them sometime but he says it just for conversation. I dont beleive him even though he has no reason to lie to me. Do you think a man can talk to woman on the phone and not meet up with them?
2006-10-12 05:44:27 · 22 answers · asked by Life is what it is! :))))))))) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel you can cheat without being physical with someone. If you are being intimate, flirting with anyone other than your mate. Those special words and emotions should be reserved for your love, no one else. When your dishonest in your heart and thought.
Sounds like this guy is lacking for something. Maybe he needs his mind made love to. Maybe doing this makes him feel more desirable. Your friend could ask her man if he'd like her to do the same.
2006-10-12 05:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Balou 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 07:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is....why does he have to seek another woman out for conversation? It doesn't matter if he'll meet up with them or not. Fact is, he's still looking for another woman to talk to. And even if he had no intentions of meeting them now, he might take it a step further later on down the line when he finally gets tired of just chatting with them.
2006-10-12 05:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he ,may not meet up with the women but he is already cheating in his heart by flirting with these women and it will distort the way he sees his relationship with his wifde if he feels the need to get on chat lines. This can destroy his marriage and he should get counseling or get involved with a church if he is addicted to the chat lines.
2006-10-12 05:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel T 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband does this all the time. The thing is he is a coach for all kids sports (soccer,baskeball,softball even some tri-athalons) plus he works 8 to 10 hours a day and is always on call. So yes I think he can flirt all he wants on the internet. As far as actually taking their phone numbers and calling them well that might be different. I don't think they can do much across these air waves except a little teasing. You should check into the phone numbers though.
2006-10-12 05:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by rose v 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's not cool to be on a phone chat line and be married that is violating the vows.
2006-10-12 05:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Danette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Many men look for just some type of connection then get addicted to that connection, but they really don't want to meet that person. I have friends I have met on the internet and I have no interest in really meeting them.
2006-10-12 05:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I question the fact that he is talking to YOU about these things. You are not his wife. He shouldn't be talking to ANY woman (beside a counselor or his wife) about his sexual needs or addictions.
I have a strange feeling he is testing the water with you... Stay clear. It's not a pond you need to be standing near or even swimming in.
2006-10-12 05:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by InnerBeauty28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think this is possible. But it's also a sign that his relationship with his wife isn't good.Otherwise, he'd be chatting with her. Sad.
2006-10-12 05:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kick my husband in the head if he was doing dumb sh*t like that. That stuff is just opening doors for cheating. Not to mention it is a stupid way to meet people, he needs to get a life.
2006-10-12 05:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋