My dog died this week, Im getting divorced and Im broke, anybody see any silver lining?
2006-10-12 05:35:14 · 17 answers · asked by Sweetheart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all do you believe in God ?
2006-10-12 05:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine41_2001usa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silver Lining...hmmm
I wonder what a silver lining would look like to you? You could say " Today is the first day of the rest of your life".
Your dog dying is a sad occation, but I would say that with your getting divorced and being broke it is one less thing for you to worry about. Some people get to this point in their lives and simply give up, some commit suicide and end it all. You have an oppertunity to pick up move anywhere in the world, cut all old ties and start the second chapter of your life. I gaurantee there is a guy out there that you only would have dreamed about untill now, his dog may have died this week too, he's broke and packing every thing he has in the back of his car, as I speak. When all things have aligned, you will meet. You can shake off all the things in your past life that bugged you, become new... everyday. Do what makes YOU happy for a change. Take a chance...., you can be broke anywhere, it might as well have a nice view.
2006-10-12 13:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by photographerbyday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how tough that one can be. I'm sure it was just the icing on the cake, being you're broke and getting a divorce. Silver lining? ALWAYS! I was blessed with the ability to not worry and stress out- so let me help you. Matthew 6:34- "Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow, for will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of it's own" I always refer back to that scripture. Honey, life's full of hurdles that we can either: jump and fall, or jump and succeed. If you jump and fall, at least you had the courage to try, if you succeed, you have courage and victory. You CAN do this. God NEVER puts more then we can handle on us! It's happening for a reason (the divorce), and in due time, you will be fine. Remember: all things worth wile take time, everything happens for a reason, and this will pass. I promise! I'll say a prayer for you! Keep your head up and stay strong!
2006-10-12 12:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you got knocked up along the way and didn't see fit to mention that, you're FREE. You have NOBODY depending on you, which means you can take time and focus on what YOU need and want out of life. It's much easier to achieve goals when you know what they are. =)
As for the being broke: if there's debt involved, you should be able to make the soon-to-be-ex take on half of that, especially if you live in a community property state. So it won't be as bad as it might look. And now that you don't have to worry about coming home to let the dog go potty, you can start being more flexible with work hours (either a job you have, or a job opportunity coming up).
2006-10-12 12:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry about everything!No one's life is perfect but there are persons out there that went through much worse and you count most of the blessings you still have.Just think of your divorce as god's way of showing that the person you where married to isn't the one for you.Some persons come into your life for a season to learn you a lesson and you get married to the wrong person.I'm sure that you're life partner is out there somewhere and I am sure you can find a job if not part time then full time.there are many vacancies out there!you will grieve for your dog for a while it is only natural the time will soon past.
2006-10-12 13:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! You have been given a second chance at life and making what you want out of it!
Plus your a woman fight for everything hes got in the divorce, even if you dont want it! You can liquidate it all later then go on a 2 month cruise if you want!
Just take it day by day, and be greatful you are still alive
2006-10-12 12:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't give you any cheers because I'm broke too, I'm 19 years old and i still virgen, i don't have a job and i got drop from some of my classes this week, But don't let these things bother you, just hope.
2006-10-12 12:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by eldomby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silver lining?? You bet. There is nowhere to go but up and you will be hinged on a fresh start. Be yourself, keep your chin way up and walk along showing confidence. You will not only gain respect, but many more friends too. Good luck to you... GaryT
2006-10-12 13:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ..sorry about that. be strong, and go look for a job even a part time job..you;ll be fine..at least think of it this way..you have great health, you live in the greatest, free country so what is the problem?
2006-10-12 12:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be cheer if you want too but unfortunately we can't do that for you cause we can't help you to take up the courage to build your life again cause that's your work not ours. no matter what rotten situations we can be in, there's always hope in life cause Jesus loves you and me and it's only through His healing that we will be heal not time so it's your choice. much blessings
2006-10-12 15:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are free for the first time. Go to Paris for a holiday.
2006-10-12 12:41:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋