I am a white man who has been happily married for 4 years. I decided to suprise my wife by doing some housework, so I washed all the clothes, folded them, and put them away. In the process, I found a large black dildo in my wife's dresser drawer. I have not confronted her yet because I want to calm down and think. Does this mean that I am not satisfying her? Does the fact that it is black mean that she is bored or hungry for something different? Can you help me undertstand? I don't want sympathy...just raw honesty.
2006-10-12 05:27:05 · 12 answers · asked by JJ J 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I, personally, wouldn't stress so hard. No pun intended. Lol. This is the same thing as if she found out that you were watching porn or had some pictorial.
If it bothers you, talk to her about it.
2006-10-12 05:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to worry about. Most women have one in some shape or form. It just means that your wife is a sexual woman. Just because it is "different" then you doesn't mean she isn't satisified with you. Sometimes a women needs it and if her man isn't around, what else can she do?
IF When you bring it up, maybe you should ask to see her use it or you use it on her. I hear some men like that sort of thing.
2006-10-12 05:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Why do you ask? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez it's just a dildo-they come in a array of colors. If she purchased a green one would you then think that she wants an alien to bang her?
2006-10-12 05:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you are telling the truth, it just means she probably likes the feeling. Nothing personal towards you at all. Don't you ever masturbate?
2006-10-12 05:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT THINK THE COLOR OF IT MEANS ANYTHING...and if she wasnt satisfied i am sure she would tell you...you can ask her about it...it may have been a gag gift or something...
2006-10-12 05:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont think that it is nessarily you maybe it was on clearence or maybe she likes the motor that is in it lol
2006-10-12 05:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by nitronme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they were out of pink ones.
2006-10-12 05:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by dixiedarling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a stack of Playboys hiding somewhere, don't you?
2006-10-12 05:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries my man.
2006-10-12 05:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by E.B. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have anything to worry about.
2006-10-12 05:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋