2006-10-12 04:52:17 · 17 answers · asked by gen2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lf husband never done any wrong thing like outside affair.ls that true that they have affair with other guy.
2006-10-12 05:23:32 · update #1
Sometimes.. "doing something wrong" may not just mean an affiar.
If hubby dun make them feel like they are cared for, if hubby dun communicate well with them, if hubby dun provide them with a life that they want, women may ask for a divorce...
Anyway, in a divorce, it always takes two hands to clap.. there is no right or wrong on both sides..
2006-10-12 15:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is usually a cry for help. By the time those words come out, they have probably told their husband a billion times about things that are lacking in the relationship, whether it's trust, behavior, actions, etc.
And most times, the husbands go on and never think to address it. Maybe they think she is just complaining or nagging, or that she is PMS-ing and that she will get over it.....when in reality, she is trying to get some input from him, and some effort into fixing what is broken before it's too late.
After being rejected or ignored for too long........we usually say I want a divorce. Those are the extreme words. If he STILL doesn't take it seriously, then in time, sooner or later......those words will be put into action and divorce is exactly what will happen.
Just ask MY soon-to-be EXhusband.
2006-10-12 05:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that its the fact that they like it. There is probably so much going on in your lives that it gets to the point where its just too much and frustrating and you just feel like you just want to give up. Maybe at that point in time she just couldnt take it anymore. But it doesnt mean that you should take it seriously. Although these problems will eventually escalade into a bigger problem and may result in divorce. See whats at the core what is causing her to say this try to work out the problems that you may have. Communication is the most important part in a marriage. You will never be able to understand how one another feels about things but knowing how they feel helps.
2006-10-12 04:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by hmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gets the mans attention and MAYBE he might understand that things are not as she thinks they should be so MAYBE he may attempt to make changes if he thinks she is considering a divorce. It's a scare tactic .... sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
Communicate more, be more attentive and understanding. Take a look at the relationship and make changes where needed as best as you can and maybe she won't mention the "D" word again.
Good luck and God Bless....
2006-10-12 04:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by Big-Sister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is not necessary to be cheated for want to be divorce there are a lot of things that make you say that , financial, poor communication a control freak husband.....etc
2006-10-12 05:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because those woman are never happy in any relationship. Divorce is just an out. These woman are the types that should never ever get married. They are basically looking for something and will never find it.
2006-10-12 04:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by steve s 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because they think their men are cowards and want to test them. Also they feel insecure and have a burning fear of being abandoned.
2006-10-12 05:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by Grace A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce ; good ,get the hell out,as soon as the threats start; it all down hill after that, get rid of her! if you tolerate the threats ;you're in big trouble ;so just get rid of her
2006-10-12 08:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by pahump1@verizon.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe cuz they want to divorce your a**?
2006-10-12 05:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think they don't really mean it. because if the man refues to divorce that's mean he still want her.
women like to feel wanted. and men like to feel needed.
2006-10-12 04:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋