i love my baby a lot and i dont know what to do if to go and hurt my mom or to just stay at home
2006-10-12 04:14:49 · 11 answers · asked by MARIA M 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
At 14 you probably feel things very deeply and are quite emotional, however your hormones and body are still developing . 18 and 21 have been deemed ages of consent because usually around those ages we are able to make more serious decisions like the one you are considering. I realize you may think that you are in love and this boyfriend is "the one", but you have many many wonderful things to experience in life, and it is far too early for you to "play house". I don't mean to sound judgmental, but if you are considering leaving your Mom and moving in with a man maybe there are some things you and your Mom need to sit down and talk about. Also I assume there is no Dad around at home, so maybe you are a little bit lonely for male attention. If you have a teen help phone line in your town or city, call them for advice. Any man/boy that wants a 14 year old girl to move in with him, is not thinking about how this will REALLY effect the rest of your life. Your Mom will be your Mom forever, but unfortunately men, and boyfriends, especially our first ones, well they tend to come and go. Hope this gives you something to think on.
One thing I do when I am making tough decision is I pray about it, cuz God always knows what is best :-)
2006-10-12 04:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by msbungle2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not good for you. No matter how much you love your bf, your life still needs a foundation. Usually, it's not there yet when you're 14. You can keep loving your bf but you shouldn't leave home for another few years. The way you know when you are ready is to answer a question: could you live on your own, seriously, no joke,? Like rent an apartment and have a single life? When the answer is yes, you can leave home. But before then - stay at home, be nice to your mom and keep working your way up to being an adult.
2006-10-12 14:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweety,
You are to young to live togehter with your boyfriend. I mean you don't have yet the experience to live with aguy alone!!!! He would just wanted the one thing.....
Your Mom wouldNt be happy bout it, so better live together with your boyfrien when your old enough but not with 14 years!!!!!
2006-10-12 13:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by marybiel_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure where you are, but in the US it is illegal, and he could get arrested for statutory rape, and possibly abducting and contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Try and work things out with your Mom, she's the only one you get, and there are lots of guys out there...
2006-10-13 08:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by Arya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still a baby ofcourse u shouldnt live with ur boyfriend at the age of 14!!!!
2006-10-12 11:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by iHanadi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old is your boyfriend?!
I really do think your too young... and not only would it hurt your mum but it would worry her right down to hell... Like dya really think your ready to move out of your home? I'm sure you love him and shiz, but think about food bills and stuff... are you or him working? I think you need to think long and hard about this one...
2006-10-12 11:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jemp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1:if you're asking this question, then you know somethings not right.
2:what business do you have livin' wit yo boyfriend. lol, of course it's not good. too young. my goodness.
2006-10-13 12:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by Raven's Shadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are to young to understand life; you mention you love your baby, do you have one at this age???? or is just your boy friend.
If you leave, you will hurt your mom.
Figure out if you were your mom, how you feel?? ahh!
2006-10-12 11:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are to young to do that kind of thing . you should stay at home were it is safe.
2006-10-12 14:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by o0jas is the name0o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home, before you get pregnant again!
2006-10-12 11:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋