We live in this place with a bunch of orphan kids! And there's alot of fights between everyone everyday! about 95% of the fights it's with the other kids! It's either 2 of my brothers or sister's fight or it's a fight against another kid here! We don't get along with them. They're always hurting us in some way. My brother is only 6 and they made fun of him cause he has a nightlight, that hurt him. How more serious can these fights get? They won't stop fighting, it's never quiet here, someone's always yelling! The other kids are always pushing us around and acting like we're their play toys. The youngest of the other kids is 8 years old, and the oldest of the other kids is 16 years old! They keep on getting feirce with us, and pushing us and everything. So all i want to know is how more serious can this get? Thanks to all those nice people who tell us. (Abusers or people who have nothing good to say will be reported)
2006-10-12 04:12:20 · 5 answers · asked by Simon M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Where is the adult supervision? Sounds like you live there with none. You are on your own. I hope that is not true.
Children, even in the best environments fight. But usually they have parents to step in and put a stop to it when it gets out of hand. If that control doesn't exist then the fighting will only get worse.
Children, in spite of what they think, need direction. More than anything else that direction, what is right and what is wrong, makes them feel wanted and valued. With no direction they are left to figure it out themselves and they are not equipped to do that.
The weaker of the children will always be picked on. What that does is give the ones doing the picking a sense that they are better so they must be okay.
What ever your situation is someone needs to being controlling those kids. If not it will come to someone getting seriously hurt. ids will take a certain amount of abuse but not forever and then they fight back.
It can get worse and will if someone doesn't step up to this.
2006-10-12 04:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey simon,it sounds 2 me that the place your in is not being run properly,report it 2 the head of the social services,i worked 4 the social services 4 many yrs and if you dont get on at them and tell them then they will never sort it.I'd love to know where u were and if i could help my services are on offer,my email address is on my profile plz dont hesitate 2 contact my email address and take care n look after you and ur family
2006-10-12 11:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that some children who have been placed in homes for whatever reason are angry. They will lash out at anyone for any reason. It is not their fault that they have so much anger built up inside them. You may just need to understand that they are hurting in one way or another. They are, in alot of ways, just like you. They may just need to know that you are theur friend and you have been there too. I don;t know how much more serious it can get. Maybe really serious if you cannot come to some type of understanding. Good Luck friend.
2006-10-12 11:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by ok2beme80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU AND YOUR SIBS LIVE IN AN ORPHANAGE??? ISN'T THERE ANYONE YOU KIDS CAN TALK TO AND REPORT THESE OTHER KIDS?? HOW ABOUT AT SCHOOL, TALK TO YOUR GUIDENCE COUNCELOR, THERE HAS TO BE SOMEONE WHO WILL LISTEN. IWOULD GUESS IT CAN GET PRETTY SERIOUS IF THERE IS NO ONE FOR YOU TO GO TO. JUST TRY AND KEEP YOURSELF AND YOUR SIBS AS SAFE AS POSSIBLE AND FIQURE OUT A WAY TO TELL SOMEONE. IT WON'T CHANGE IF YOU DON'T!!! GOOD LUCK AND KEEP YOUR FAMILY SAFE!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-12 11:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to call Children's Services because what you describe sounds horrific.
2006-10-12 11:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋