me and my gf are sleep over together and her parents trust her , so would you let us sleep together we're responsibly . ??? dont be rude please
2006-10-12 03:20:22 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yes we're 16
2006-10-12 03:22:52 · update #1
what so ever is just an opinion . i like to living life
2006-10-12 03:43:42 · update #2
yes i love her ,st.helena
i know you are kind of rude mother ,how could you say i don't love her if you dont even know me
2006-10-12 04:09:11 · update #3
i'm sorry helena but you stupid hypocritic
2006-10-12 04:11:52 · update #4
if you were my mother helena , i would pray to dead. just dont judge people . poor your kids
2006-10-12 04:18:37 · update #5
I Know U Said Parents Only But I Have An Answer And well i Want To Share It..I Am Allowed To Sleep over My Bf House Same As He is Allowed To Sleep At Mine We R Allowed In The Same Room And Same Bed And We Are Only 15 So I Believe That U and You Gf Should Be Allowed.
2006-10-12 08:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I have an 18 y.o step son. His girlfriend turned 17 today. They sleep in the same bed in his bedroom in my house. I don't like it but was over ruled by his mother. Again, I am his step father. But its all a respect thing, I'm obviously not respected. It has got to the point that she sleeps here every night and I'm sick of it. If your girlfriends parents let you stay, you have to respect the fact its their house and as an earlier writer said, don't do anything that is going to cause bad feelings in the house and make them lay down the rules because you will find that you may not be invited again. Make the staying over journey the exception rather than the rule. Remember this is a test for you both.
2006-10-12 11:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Me M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd be more comfortable if the young couple was 17+ but alot has to do with your relationship. How long has the couple been together? Are the couple using protection? How does everyone relate to each other? My brothers 17yr old son who's in the military (Army) brought his girlfriend 19, also serving, home during leave, in this situation he had no problem with them sharing a room. At first they were going to get a motel room but after my brother thought about it he figured a motel would be just a waste of their $$.
2006-10-12 14:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If my son's girlfriend was to stay over it would be in a different room, definitely. It's not just about trust it's about being of legal aid, what would HER parents say/think and do they approve and then of course the fact that I personally don't agree with kids sleeping together and that's my opinion and right as his mother.
2006-10-12 12:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't believe in sex or sleeping together in anyway before marriage. At the age of 16 you are way too young to be doing that. I am guessing that you really don't love her. Because if did, you would wait and put a wedding ring on her finger when you both turned 18. Sex is a loving act between two married people.
2006-10-12 10:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well as a parent, i would not let you sleep over in the first place. even though i trust my child, under peer pressure anything can happen including sex. so no, you would not sleep together. but, i do know a few parents that are ok with that sort of thing and trust that their kid will not have sex, and guess what.......9 of 10 their daughter or son was having sex. and even after they found out different they were ok with it, b/c they protected themselves. If i were you, do not try to push too much too soon.
2006-10-12 10:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by Freckled aquarius 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, everyone raises children differently. Unfortunately, children don't come with instruction manuals and the millions of books written on the subject don't even agree with each other.
No couple (of any age) sleeps together in my house unless they are married. I don't judge what other people do; that's not my place. But I have a right to say what goes on in my home.
2006-10-12 12:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust does not have anything to do with this. I have 3 sons and I don't think it's appropriate for them to have their girlfriends sleep over. Especially if it's in the same room. I would probably make an exception if it were a special occasion but she would sleep in another room or another part of the house. Also I would have to talk this over with her parents.
2006-10-12 10:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by Lanita H 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I allow my daughter's bf to sleep over, but do not allow them to sleep in the same room. I trust them both and they are good kids (both are 17), but I do not feel that it is appropriate. Out of respect for my parents, I never shared a room in their house with my significant other unless we were married. If your gf's parents are kind enough to let you sleep over in their home, you shouldn't practice any type of behavior that may make them uncomforable. Don't put them in the position of having to "lay down the house rules" and be the "bad guy".
2006-10-12 10:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by Lovey 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would not allow my 16 year old son to have a girl sleep in his bed...no matter how much I trust him(and I do). I might consider letting her sleep in a guest room if she needed to stay the night. This probably isn't the answer you were looking for, sorry...but it is my honest opinion.
2006-10-12 12:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋