my husband is a Capricorn, and I am an Aries, please help me to understand him?

Question

we are totally opposite on everything on serious issues, he shows no emotions as if he doesn't even care. How do Capri's show how they feel, even when it's guilty.

Answer 1

Capricorns are scared to show their weaknesses. They don't like direct confrontation.
He has emotions but he'd rather take his time to work through things rationally in his own head before making a decision.

Try to calm down and get him to talk to you and explain things. It's not easy for him to express his feelings. Try to be patient with him, Aries.

Answer 2

I am Aries, My Lover is Capricorn

This is a pairing of very different individuals, approaching life with different methods. As an Aries, you can't (or won't) survive well in anything too structured, whether it be a relationship or a job. Inside you is the soul of a rebel. A fire sign, you are meant to force life forward and tread where others are too scared to investigate. Capricorn is all about practicality and safety -- most likely your lover has a good job, since Capricorns do their best work within the structure of huge companies. Since they care deeply about their reputations and take on heavy responsibilities, they always make a name for themselves.

While you float continuously in an enthusiastic bubble of ideas, your lover is more cautious, and more firmly planted on the ground. The eternal optimist, you always see the light at the end of the tunnel, but your lover may believe the tunnel leads to a cul de sac and warns you of impending danger. You do balance one another out, but the process could be hard on your spirit, Aries. Still, if you can use the best of what you both have to offer -- your pioneering spirit and Capricorn's talent for building big, solid structure -- you can accomplish a great deal together.

Can fire and earth signs mix well in bed? Yes, but no matter how long you've known your Capricorn, you will have to take the time to seduce him or her. Capricorns are the prototypical workaholics and have to be soothed properly before they get "in the mood." They carry around their business responsibilities 24 hours a day, and you are going to have to dismantle those burdens first. You are all about impetuous passion, but you need to give them a little time. Once aroused, you will find Capricorns are deeply sensuous and tender. They are reserved. You are going have to work slowly and patiently to open them up. Once you do, you will be richly rewarded!

Together you can enjoy both excitement and rewards for your efforts. For you, this means building solid wealth, something you dream about attaining, but may not achieve because of your penchant for high level risk. If your Capricorn were to run the relationship, it would be placid and peaceful. If you were to run it, it would be exciting and stimulating -- but perhaps somewhat scattered. If it were to be all their way, you'd be bored and restless; all your way, he or she would be exhausted and terrified. But together in compromise? You've got it all. The trick is finding that middle course.

Answer 3

We Capricorns are very sensitive and tend to "freeze" people out when we are upset with them. It is because we have Saturn as our ruling planet (which dictates that we keep stern control over our emotions) and don't easily let our guard down. I do the same thing. You have a tricky pairing there astrologically. You'll have to work that much harder to overcome your differences and things will not necessarily be the most smooth. But Capricorns don't easily give up on relationships so he's probably in it for the long haul.

Answer 4

That's a hard one. Male Capricorns are a different breed of Caps. As a female Capricorn, I try to avoid them all together. They seem to be a little on the crazy side. LOL. Of all the Capricorn's that I've run into, they are the kindest, most, giving people in the world, but once you cross that line and get on their bad side.....you can forget it. They are done with you. And we tend to keep stuff bottled up until you push us to that level where we explode. I'm not sure about your hubby, but I may not show emotion, but I definitely think about it, over and over again. Good luck!!! :)))

Answer 5

Good luck! ive been with my capricorn man for 4 years and they are almost IMPOSSIBLE to understand. You have to understand they have problems expressing feelings, mine barely ever compliments me or tells me he loves me. Yet he does hold me alot, buys little gifts, on holidays he goes over board. They keep everything inside. If you want to know the truth get him piss *** drunk thats when capricorn men areally open up and say the things they can't say...they are just as insecure and have issues like the rest of us..they just keep it in

Answer 6

If your trying to solve relationship issued with astrology you are utterly screwed. Differences is what makes a relationship move foward so its okay that you two dont see everything eye to eye on every single subject!

Answer 7

a marriage is comunication, is being patient, is compromise, we don't know you, therfore we can't tell you how to understand him better based on your zodiac signs... I think you too should take some time to talk about your relationship, and how each one of you has to give up a little to make things better... :D

Answer 8

most Aries men are romantic and VEry sexy im married to one and since Im Pisces we're great together. He will want lots of sex and for you to be proud of him Stroke his ego...they are independent...capricorns want to run things Be Careful...he will want to row his own boat..
see Linda Goodman's Love Signs book

Answer 9

Go to your local library and pick up a book on astrology.

Answer 10

Try blowing him instead of asking for advice on the internet.