My aunt and her boyfriend are starting to get on my nerves they have been fighting alot latley and i need a way to get them to break up before i go insane. My aunt dosen't look happy and i think she is just scared of him so what should i do.
2006-10-12 02:56:53 · 14 answers · asked by Justin B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is really not your place to get in the middle of it. If she doesn't want him around she'd tell him and if the fear was the case I am sure she would confide in someone and build up the courage.
All you can do is support her and when they get in a big fight and he leaves go ask her if she needs anything and at that moment say why do you put up with that you can do better and you deserve better. Now she will either tell you its none of your business or she will spill the beans, but at least you said those words that are going to ring through in the back of her mind and one day in a heated argument with him she'll say this is bull**** I can do better than this, get out.
2006-10-12 03:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your nerves aren't where they should be--like minding their own business. It isn't your position in life (unless you think you're God), to decide if someone else's relationship should be altered by you. What you should do is stay away from things that bother you that you have no business with in the first place.
2006-10-12 10:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not your business and keep out of it. Your aunt must be old enough to sort out her own problems surely. Our life is what we make it and also by the decision we make as well. You break them up, and she could turn on you later. BAck off.
2006-10-12 09:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel and tell her not to feel scared that you will be there for her no matter what.
If that doesn't work and she want's to still be with him then talk to him and tell him to leave her alone . Of course in a mature way.
It can be hard to do but, if youreally want this do it.
Good Luck
2006-10-12 10:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by Solitaire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let nature take its course. You should never step in between a relationship, when you don't really know all of the details.
2006-10-12 10:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life of your own. Let them sort it out, you can offer advice on places that may be able to help her if she needs to get away from him. But ultimately it's her choice & her life.
2006-10-12 10:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by wolfgang n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it... Mind your own business and let your Aunt run her own life
2006-10-12 09:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Intentionally trying to ruin a relationship is low.
2006-10-12 10:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get in the middle, but I would talk with her because you obviously care about her and her happiness.
2006-10-12 10:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to her and tell her this can't be good for her to keep seeing this guy. That maybe she should move on.
2006-10-12 09:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋