weekend because he was not helping me with her and he plays too many video games. Anyway, he takes her to school in the morning but now that he's moved out he can't take her anymore. I'm working on getting my driver's license, so I asked my b/f if he could watch OUR daughter while I'm at driving school. It will be just for a few hours after I get home from work. He says "NO", he will not watch her because I won't let him use the computer to play video games anymore. Mind you, his constant playing of video games and not helping me with OUR daughter is the cause for us breaking up so I disabled the computer. He will not watch her, unless I let him play video games on the computer. This sounds like blackmail to me and I am HURT by his statement. Now, I'm not the one who believes in women who don't let men see their children but for pulling this stunt, I don't think he deserves to see her at all. It's not like he's active in her life anyway! I am HURT! What would you guys do?
2006-10-12 02:38:21 · 4 answers · asked by melcar12345 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Listen, I had a ex-wife who is to this day a loser, she left my 3 boy s and I for "freedom" and another man.I am fine with that,I don't care ,but what I do care about is her relationship with my children who are teen-agers now.Try to remove your feeling s of that loser from the situation and think about what is best for yu child. If it is giving in to th e blackmailing loser so be it.If it is not giving in so be it.But remember and keep in mind when he (the loser )becomes the second best option he is out because it is what is best for the kid.(by the way I raised my children worked 60 hours a WEEK and coached them in basebal and they all 3 excel in school ) yes it can be done but it isn't easy .Good luck --and don't be afraid stand tall you are the controller not him (I mean that in a good way --you are in control)
2006-10-12 02:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by ga44male 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-12 09:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd find someone else to watch her while I attended the driver's class and tell him to kiss my ***, he needs to grow up and I would not ask anything of him except where's my child support payment??
2006-10-12 09:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick that loser to the curb. He gets whatever visitation the court decides.
2006-10-12 09:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋