How are you going to stop her if she wants to?
2006-10-12 02:04:37 · 25 answers · asked by Perseus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am a qualified massuese trasined at cllege to do muscle and circulation manipulation, if you mean this type of massage then no worries, however a lot of businesses are called massage parlours and have nothing to do with massage, more like whores parlours then obvisouly that would not be a good place for your wife to work, get the place checked over by ITEC Iternational Therapists Examination council to see if all is above board.
2006-10-12 04:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by deborahrumbles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been getting a massage for the last year, about once a month... Never once has my breasts been touched... I mean, above them like right below my shoulders... yes... but not lower than that... Also, they don't really do my butt either... she goes along the side, but not directly close to anything. I also am quite smooth after one. My gal uses the oil lotion, which is absorbed into my skin, but not fully. As for a woman to do you, and if you were my husband, I wouldn't care! Unless... I wasn't comfortable with the amount of touching going on in personal spots... Of course, the only way I would be uncomfortable if they touched me in areas that shouldn't have been touched. I am trying to get my husband to go get one from the gal that does mine, he said he just wouldn't be comfortable because it was a woman. I told him that I would trust him because even when her husband is on her table, he isn't allowed to touch her in any way, nor is she touching him in any way other than professionally. The first time her husband tried and his hand got slapped, he was offended, until she told him that if she let him do it, then her guard may be brought down some and she doesn't want that. So, she treats him like any other customer while on her table. Period.
2016-03-28 06:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my! that is sticky. You see, things bad began make themselves worse with time. She might be good and honest at the beginning but as time goes by she might meet some clients with strange tastes. that might lead her to try some strange things. and the rest might not be pleasant. so, no i won't let my wife work in a massage parlour and no i won't take a job in a massage parlour for the same reason.
As to how i would stop her if she wants to, that is for you to figure out. good luck!
2006-10-12 02:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by samuel p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its fine as long as they pay medical expenses and aids tests every 6 months. Her contract would need to have 52% of her income go directly to me for allowing her to do the job with an additional payment of 80% tips to me for ensuring she keeps practising at her job. This is only fair as lets face it - the better her technique, the better the parlour will do as people recommend the parlour to their mates.
Oh, and my mates & family members get charged quadrouple the highest price in the parlour.
2006-10-12 02:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by tickTickTICK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she was a certified massage therapist sure. If it's the more carnal kind of massage therapy I wouldn't stand for it. If she took the job I'd tip out the door. It's a line we've drawn my wife and I.
2006-10-12 02:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a big difference between massage therapy and message parlors. A massage parlor generally sells sex as well as rub-downs and no, I wouldn't let my wife work in one.
If she wanted to work for a licensed massage therapist, it wouldn't be a problem.
2006-10-12 02:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by Glennroid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy would be a problem if my husband (since I am female) were working in a massage parlor... but you have to trust them. It is a job and she should treat it like any other job. The upside is you get free massages!
2006-10-12 02:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by MMC 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
noway.....Ya'll are just asking for trouble. If she knows how you feel then she should respect you when you tell her that it bothers you if she does this. If she still wants to do it you better question your marriage. You better put your foot down NOW and tell her NO. I would rather have a fight with her for a little while then to think about her rubbing on other guy's all day. Stand up to her and let her know how you feel.God Bless
2006-10-12 02:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by what to do 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without a doubt but then again we have always had an open relationship. I really don't see what the problem would be especially if you were not the jealous type and think of all the lovely things you could buy from her earnings.
2006-10-12 02:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your wife wants to work in the sex industry without your approval, this would give you grounds for divorce in the basisof adultery, or unreasonable behaviour / irreconcilible differences.
2006-10-12 03:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by des c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋