i met this guy he is nice and we met on yahoo, he saw a picture of me and he thinks im pretty and i saw one of him but i dont find him attractive at all, do i dump him, give him a make over or what?
2006-10-12 02:03:45 · 17 answers · asked by pris_princess_1234 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
looks don't mean anything. If you like the guy enough in the inside, the outside will get better. Don't be superficial.
2006-10-12 02:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough to tell from a picture if you find someone attractive or not. Terms like 'pretty' or 'ugly' might apply, but you never know.. Perhaps if you met him in real life, the manner about him, facial expressions and all.. You might look at him differently. So whatever you do, don't be so shallow as to ignore him based merely on a picture.
Also, ignore MammaMia. I'm a confident bloke and I met an equally sassy lassie on this site, met her offline and found love. Have your wits about you though, when you meet someone from any site, as it's easy for anyone to appear better or worse in writing. So meet in a public place.. And if you're not interested, be sure to let him know. Don't be cruel though - cruelty is quite bad on our skin and won't make a guy any more handsome.
2006-10-12 02:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by McAtterie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
80% of guys you meet online are nice...at the beginning or for a long time. They cannot be assholes because they are a click away from the "ignore" basket.
If you dont find him attractive, stop making excuses for it. Unless you are an absolute troll (and I doubt that is the case)....no guy will see you as unattractive because its a biological fact that 75% of men will do ANYONE that asks them..its a seeding thing and unfortuately a proven fact.. AND the ones that wont "do you" will be gay or genuinely inlove with someone else already.
That leaves many married/attached guys that arent inlove doesnt it. Anyway...one meeting is the same as a new meeting. Stop guilting yourself out for talking to him online for any length of time. It was only ever a pre-date anyway. You dont owe him anything.
Stop getting yourself beyond reality here. Its hard to figure out a guy in realtime and stupid to guess a guy in fantasytime. You dont have any sniff and smell (pheromones) or
2006-10-12 02:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off. don't listen to the hipe about all guys using online dating as being unable to get a girl...
first off, do you connect with him in writing?
have you spoken to him - you know... telephone, VOiP... does he sound nice then?
Don't let a photo decide you without gettign to know him first.
Try, "lets be friends first"
worked for me, and i have been with the guy steadily for the past 8 months.
ONCE AGAIN - don't let a photo decide you! My guy looks sweet, kinda intellegent but not a 'baywatch' babe in a photo but he is down right gorgeous in the flesh!
I am normally called 'plain' in photos but guys say i'm a stunner when they meet me face to face...
Don't judge a book by it's cover, be nice and meet him somewhere neutral, preferably public - not the cinemas! hiding in the dark will not help you decide if you like him (not just his looks but HIM as a person - and you won't talk then either!).
2006-10-12 03:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by BlackCat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance but a loooong chance. Be very wary of people you meet online but it does work sometimes. As far as looks are concerned, at some point they go away anyway. There are many things more important than looks.
2006-10-12 02:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by bored1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be more concerned that you met him online. I'd have to worry about people who can't meet and date people in real life. Aside from that, looks do play a part, of course, but its not the most important thing. Looks change over the years. Your ability to connect doesn't.
2006-10-12 02:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you truly like someone looks should not matter, but if they still do, slowly give him a makeover. One thing at a time so he doesn't catch on that you are trying to change him.
2006-10-12 02:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by BabyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your shallow! I guess you would rather have a good looking guy thats an a$$ hole than have a guy that isnt attractive that is nice. Thats okay if you dump him its your loss not his.
2006-10-12 02:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
trust me, if you have a guy who is a good person & good to you, he gets better looking to you every day! you just have to get beyind worrying of what people will think about this looks. i've dated very attractive men who knew they were cute & had no problem spreading themselves around. better average looking & decent vs hot & rotten!!
2006-10-12 07:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by L. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
there are too many nice guys out there to worry about this one
it will be a problem for you
100's have passed on him
how many 100's have pased on you 'cuz you were not cute enuff, or too cute, or a blonde, or not a blonde
just move on and have fun and BE SAFE
2006-10-12 02:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by mike c 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋