I want her to be satisfied completly, and I am not well endowed. She cums several times when I go down on her, but it's not often she cums when we umpf....Do you think this is a good idea......Meet a perfict stranger in another town, someone who we will never see again? Has anyone tried this??
2006-10-12 01:52:00 · 23 answers · asked by 6ft5inallman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is something you and your wife need to discuss. I have heard about adding another person to the bedroom and in some cases it works very well but in others, it can break the relationship up because of jealousy and insecurity. Just make sure you are well aware of what you are getting into. There are many other things you and her can try before adding somebody else. Good luck!
2006-10-12 01:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice of you think about your wife being totally satisfied, but maybe she is- with you.
As a wife, I would be hurt by this. It is like handing her over to let someone else care for her. Your intentions are good, but do you want HER satisfied or are you wanting to satisfy YOUR fantasy- using her as an excuse?
In any case, it is a BAD IDEA.
2006-10-12 01:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by rottymom02 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married 16 years! Now listen this sounds fun and exciting and I wish we were friends lol but all kidding aside, if all you are worried about is the actuall sex don't believe me, she's happy and satisfied with the uuhhmm oral. If you introduce someone else into the bedroom, you could be loosing more then you think. Good Luck!!
2006-10-12 01:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by Brenda M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
on the same time because it could turn you on, what if, suddenly, your spouse decides that maybe she prefers one among the different companions over you, and swiftly, from having an excellent intercourse existence with an extremely keen important different, you finally end up with no longer something. Fantasies are super, interior of reason, yet oftentimes, they are superb left as in simple terms that, fantasies, and actually greater so whilst it incorporates somebody else genuinely engaging, extremely of it being a figment of you mind's eye. individually speaking, 2 into 3 would not pass, so why take the prospect of being the unusual one out. mike t.
2016-10-19 06:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by avey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend has the same fantasy-it makes me mad that he wants someone else to do me-I want him to want me-To really turn her on show confidence and sweep her off her feet when she least expects it. Take control-don't think you can't -that puts you in a frame of mind that she can sense. Remember she is with you for many reasons-show her how happy and excited you are to be with her! When my boyfriend suggest him watching me with someone else i feel like I'm not good enough even though i know its just his own insecurities. Best Wishes!
2006-10-12 01:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by laura_lovely_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try using a sex toy? Experience with different positions, or techniques. There is TOO much involved with having another person involved.
Has she given you an indication she is not completely satisfied?
2006-10-12 01:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell ya.... perhaps... more foreplay... anticipation and state of mind is half the fun........ maybe invest in a few toys......
Did you run that idea past your wife? How does she feel about it........ Bringing up a threesome was fun in my marriage .... but my husban actually consenting to it caused a huge rift.
2006-10-12 01:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok let me get this straight. You already have insecurity issues and now you want to bring in another man and watch him actually sexually please your wife like you have been unable to do?
How will this help your marriage? This may be the last straw and cause her to want to leave. BAD IDEA!
2006-10-12 02:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by lady_reed_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am already doing your wife behind your back and she cums all the time with me.
2006-10-12 02:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by jeff402006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can work out he dosnt have to be out of town but just be once in a while, Some work some dont just be ready to suffer if it dosnt
2006-10-12 02:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋