my friend is in love with a 29 year old.
howerver she's 16? i said he is cute but old!
so, do you think he is too old for her?
2006-10-12 01:51:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i've told her again and again he's old, but her dad is 18 years older than her mom. and she says he's only 13 years old than her.
2006-10-12 01:53:47 · update #1
he doesn't like her he doesn't even know she likes him i just kind of seeing if i am ok in telling her she's nutts:)
2006-10-12 01:58:48 · update #2
Relax ... it's just a crush.
2006-10-13 17:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are on 2 different planets. The 16yo hasn't even graduated. The 29 yo is in the middle of a career (hopefully). He has had more life experiences than she can imagine. They think differently, act differently, have different dreams and aspirations. A 16 yo wants to date and graduate, a 29 yo wants a new car, to travel, have a great home, and go out for a casual good time. The relationship might work if she was 23 or 24 but not now.
2006-10-12 11:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird, younger girls get crushes on older guys all of the time. However, he is way too old for her (at least at this point in time in her life). There's nothing wrong with her having the crush, but for them to pursue it would be wrong.
Remind her that if she was to get into any kind of relationship with him he would more than likely want sex, and that could end in jail time for him. If she really cares for him she won't want that to happen.
Also try asking her what they could possibly have in common. Have her sit down and really think about it. You might also want to try to introduce her into some guys that are closer to her age.
Good luck
2006-10-12 09:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Independent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say untill she is 18 he is way to old for her. If he feels like he needs a 16 year old then probably hasn't got much to be proud of.
2006-10-12 08:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom was 17 when she started dating my dad, he was 28. I still think that's disgusting personally lol. But they've been married over 25 years and are still in love. I think no one over 18 should be looking at minors that way personally.
2006-10-12 10:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by Cookie On My Mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"AGE DOESN'T MATTER.." as the usual saying goes.. You know what? in our school, (exclusive school for girls), we don't have boys to like and we don't have neighboring schools around, so we tend to have crushes on our 22-48 yrs. old teachers! and we are like 12-17 yrs old!! Think about that! and Some rumors are spreading that a 27 yr. old teacher is courting his 16 yr. old student. Eeew..
2006-10-12 09:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only weird but illegal. He could get in alot of trouble dating her. However if she and he are really in love they should be able to wait till she is 18 to prusue a true relationship.
2006-10-12 08:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only is he too old, but if they are having sex then he is guilty of rape and could spend the next 20 years of his life in prison!
2006-10-12 08:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and 30 year old man is desperate if he is willing to date a 16 year old girl...
he needs standards
its ok for her to have a crush.. however.. he def. does NOT need to like her.. thats sad if he does..
no offence to your friend.. im sure she is beautiful.. but shes 16 years old...
2006-10-12 08:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by holly w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is way too old for her
2006-10-12 08:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is way to old for her.
2006-10-12 18:11:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋