Every kid in high school fights to be the popular one why do thinkl that is. if you are so popular everyone will know your mistakes .....
2006-10-12 01:40:07 · 14 answers · asked by honduran_monkey14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
because they cant be accepted for who they really are so they try to be someone else. but you should just be yourself and accept it. because who cares what people think about you because what matters in on the inside.
2006-10-12 01:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making mistakes isn't the end of the world, your human. So is wanting to be popular when you are in your teens. Being popular is equated with your self esteem. The more friends the better you feel about yourself. Eventually as you mature the TYPE of friend becomes more important than the number.
2006-10-12 09:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Country Hick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares how popular you are in school you are there to get and education. I cant count the # of friends I had in school there were so many but the # I deal with now that I am grown is 0. I dont talk to or even see any of them now. Just make sure you dont let any influence your decisions to stay in school and make a life for yourself, chances are the are not going to be around when you get out anyway.
2006-10-12 08:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly! Right on girl!
Another thing is that everyone in high school wants to be cool so they can get respect. This popularity nonsense is just for the weak-of -heart, ridiculous, and pathetic wannabees. It's just so silly it isn't worth wasting your precious patience on!
You're on the right path to sanity!
2006-10-12 08:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by Dahv Inchi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its almost like everyone is trying to find their way and push them self to the top. If people perceive some one as the "best" most popular" etc, then they must be, right?
Perception is reality!
2006-10-12 08:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people chose thier own paths....well they think being popular would well make them popular lol sorry im not much help anyway always take care of ur self and be happy
seems like there is something wrong msg me ill try to help
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2006-10-12 08:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by roxassnake16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because everyone feels the need to be accepted and liked by their peers--especially high school kids...some lack the maturity to stand alone...
2006-10-12 08:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a also (I think) a way for them to feel accepted not for the right reasons but to feel wanted. I never understood it myself. Becoming popular you have to fit in with what other people want, not what you want.
2006-10-12 08:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by janet_67_1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont but how do you convince my 11 yr old it aint?
2006-10-12 08:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by cooter_1us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because everyone wants attention just like you on this website
2006-10-12 08:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by chronic_master_bater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋