My boyfriend of 13 years told me last nite that if I don't start having sex with him when he wants it (4-5 times a week), he was going to walk out on me and our 3 kids. I'm not working, I have no vehicle, the house I rented when we split up last time, he bought and I would not stay here because he would be coming here non-stop, I told him if he walks out on us again it is for the last time, I'm NOT playing games with my kids heads or hearts, I'm just soo tired by the end of day after taking care of the kids, I just don't have the engery to have sex with him. Is there any kind of pill to "up" the sexual drive for a women? I know there's stuff out there for men.
2006-10-12 01:30:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't need a pill. Tell him to hit the damn road. You and your children don't need that kind of pressure. If he's giong to leave over sex or lack of it, then he is not worth the fight. In the event you do take a sexual enhancment pill, still kick his *** to the curb and enjoy it with someone who will treat you better.
2006-10-12 01:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's the least of your troubles. Why make babies with a man you've been with for 13 years if you're not committed to each other? You brought 3 kids into to world without a life-long commitment to each other? Kids don't need this type of drama. If you want my opinion (you did post here), you should marry this guy, get some marital counseling make it work for the sake of the kids. After the kids are 18, then divorce or leave or have all your drama then. Don't make your kids suffer because the two of you have behaved immaturely all these years.
2006-10-12 01:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main sex hormone is testosterone, yes women have this also. the more you have this hormone the more horny you become more often.
As for tired, you have been doing the same thing day in day out.
you need to get more blood moving through your body, with exercise. when you are more physically fix you will have more energy, but it will not happen over night.
Take your kids for a walk, biciycle, or swim
good luck
2006-10-12 01:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Juggernaut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that I know of but I believe there are several in development..
Does porn help ?
Sounds like you need to dump boyfriend of 13 yrs and find a man who will marry you...
What the heck is wrong with him ?
What the heck is wrong with you ?
How could either of you allow this to go on for
13 yrs & 3 kids without getting married ?????
2006-10-12 01:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have more or less the same problem, only mine isn't threating to leave...he just says it will eventually ruin us...now that I say it out loud, it's about the same...I don't get why having sex is soooo crucial to a relationship. We didn't get together for the sex, we got together because of the connection and feelings we share...if you find anything, let me know!
2006-10-12 01:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably very little, female enhancement pills are tailored to female bodies and hormones, many of which are just not present in males.
2016-03-28 06:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you saying? that you are willing to drug yourself with chemicals just to indulge a male ego? i'm not a feminist - quite the contrary - but if you live with a man who can't understand that a woman with three kids get tired in the evening than he does not deserve your time.........and what is he saying?? married with three children and having sex 4 to 5 times a week? he watches to much tv evidently.....and if his libido is really that high (,,,!) it's just a matter of time before he starts sleeping around no matter if you wait for "ready" every night..
.........think of your children......don't tolerate the pressure just because of financial support......seek another solution......
........greeting from belgium
2006-10-12 01:43:18 · answer #7 · answered by kika 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do not satisfy a man in bed he will cheat or leave.
If this is really the way you are do not get involved with another man. You find the energy to get everything else done............
2006-10-12 08:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what are u Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn - how about a wedding ring and then u can talk
2006-10-12 02:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its called ZESTRA I have seen commercials for it on tv
2006-10-12 01:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋