i have strong feelings for a guy.but he doesn't know i exist, he is 11 years older than me, and to top it off he doesn't speak english.he even lives in an enirely different continent.(pls don't ask how i know him then) is this wrong?is this hopeless?what can i do cause i feel like comitting suicide if i don't speak to him.pls send answer a.s.a.p
2006-10-12 01:20:17 · 5 answers · asked by shaq 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no matter what you may think there is no one or anything that is worth committing suicide for..you need to get in touch with your true self, it sounds like you may be a little insecure with yourself..no one will ever truly MAKE YOU HAPPY. you have to learn to make yourself happy..you are worthy of all the love you are..even if you get this guy, are you sure you would want someone you really don't know anything about? get to know yourself first. i would suggest maybe talking to someone or reading some books on self esteem. i don't know what this guy has said to you, for you to feel this way, but if he has just been nice to you and just wants to talk to you, you may be reading to much into all of it, because of the being insercure thing..but please don't think for one moment that there isn't someone who doesn't care..god does..blessings
2006-10-12 01:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek some help, fast! Talking about committing suicide is no joke! To want to kill yourself because you feel for someone whom is in a different continent , and whom you prob never met is really ignorant!
I think you should get over it and find someone near your area! Unless you have the financial means to get use together and he wants it to then go for it... Nobody here can help you!!! Remember suicide is a permanent solution, to a temporary problem!
2006-10-12 08:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by princesbubbleyum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fine.
You will wake up tomorrow, and the next day, and the next without talking to him (and if you don't speak his language, then you don't know what he would say anyway).
Crushes aren't easy...that is why they call them crushes :).
Stay busy, hang out with friends, and you will feel differently at some point.
2006-10-12 08:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11 years older, don't speak English and in another Continent!!!!!!! you can;t know him just from the Internet and be in love you don't know the real person. find someone in your country that you will know in person.don't commit suicide over a man you don't even know they are not worth it.
2006-10-12 08:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U no wot ur just hopeless, you mite as well to urself now. a guy 11 years older??? another continet?? get over it, ur not in love, your desperate!!!! sori to be so harsh about it1!!!!
2006-10-12 08:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by sally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋