My ex and I were together for a month but then he cheated me and when I went to Israel he called me and he said that he loved me, but then 2 weeks after he called me I saw a cute guy and we were very close and I slept whit him to, but I loved me ex and I told him that I went whit another guy, and we broke. My ex was very angry and he said that my mother is a whore and I'm too. but when I came home he called me all the time that he missed me
and that he loves me, but 2 weeks later he wrote on the street that I'm a whore and stuff like that. Now he says he loves me and he never will let me go.
I do love him but I hate him for what he has done to me. My best friend says he really meant it what he said to me about that he loves me forever. but I don't know. and my parents hate him because hurted me so much. What can I do?
2006-10-12 01:15:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
think twice before make the same mistake u did before ............. and good luck
2006-10-12 01:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by zinarch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.. look at it this way.He cheated on you. and you already found another great guy!Your ex was mad at this situation, right? if he really really loved you, why didn't he just let you go, and be happy with your new guy?He's even said bad things about you and your mum, he can't even respect you! And then what, next he calls you up and says that you're his only one?He has already broken your heart once-the cheating thing-. And you may want to give him another chance but hey-think about the consequences. everything that may happen-things you don't want to happen. Your feelings come first, NOT HIS. So if you actually pity him for being lonesome, and you neglect the thought of your real love life, the love you wish to go on more than a month will be lost. You must respect his and your on feelings. you have to tell him how you feel. And if he gets pissed again, you have to know this guy is NOT worth it. If you think he is worth another go, and you think he has learned his lesson, tell your parents that he may change. this way your parents won't feel uncomfortable whenever he is around. Or if you feel like you don't wanna accept him, just keep things cool, tell him the truth about your feelings.. and just hopes he understands you, for who you are.
2006-10-12 08:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by hopeful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who proclaims to love you will love you through all your faults. He calls you a whore, but he in fact cheated on you too. So, what does that make him. I you have to think about it too long then the best answer would be not to go back to him. But on the other hand it all matters what you think and not your family or friends. They do not know what goes on behind close doors and they don't feel the way you feel. And emotions can not be described well.
2006-10-12 08:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by stacyshickman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur best fren was just trying to make u feel better. How on earth would she know what ur boy truly meant or did not.
I say, if someone can call u a whore and degrade you that way, there's alr something missing and wrong and u shld see it as it is. Actions speak louder than words, remember. He cheated, and wrtoe stuff in public. That's glaring enough.
You can listen to ur parents who know things better becos they're mature and love you.
2006-10-12 08:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To wrongs dont make it right! Hes obviously very inmature and so are you! Love doesnt involve cheating are being hurt are sleeping with someone ealse! As far as going back to him, honestly read what you;ve written here and ask yourself that question! Hes obviously a player I wouldnt recommened you go back, unless you like the games!
2006-10-12 08:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by princesbubbleyum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think because you only went out for a month, and already he cheated on you, he is not worth it. If after he calls you names, he is not man enough to tell them to your face, and besides if a man calls you a whore does not respect you, so get rid of him and move on to bigger and better things. good luck
2006-10-12 08:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...just forget your ex and get a new life. He might like you a lot but he doesn't know exactly what he wants.
Jus forget him. This relationship wont last long even if you get back with him. Move on. Fast!
2006-10-12 08:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Dahv Inchi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 much he / she loves me -- loves me not, stay alone for a while and see how you feel after some time apart! ....... o' i thank the lord for avin an easy relationship.
2006-10-12 08:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by seany b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can not love u calling u names and putting your mother in it too.
get a life and get over him.
2006-10-12 08:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....you can tell him you wanna talk it out and take it slow....and maybe in a couple months you can see if he really does want you back or if he's just playing with you..............
2006-10-12 08:20:33 · answer #10 · answered by Katilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay alone for while till u get things under control
2006-10-12 08:17:48 · answer #11 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋