first time one of my best friend fall in love with my boy..but this was long ago i passed oever it.and i made a new best friend...i thought that nobody can destroy our friendship...everytime when ppl said dat we will split up we were laughing cause we didn't liek the same boys..but one day a meet a new guy..and he was so cute..but i had to move from my country(romania) to england.and that guy said he loves me and he will wait for me but one day i gave him my best freind's id..so they started talking and started dating..they said they are just good friends..but one day one of my friends told me that they are lovers...i can trust anymore in my friends cause they will finally dissapoint me..as these2 girls did..i know that i can't be with that guy cause he's in romania and me in england but it wasn't fair to cheat me...
2006-10-12 00:48:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Long distance relationships hardly work, especially when across countries. It was going to happen with someone else eventually. You are lucky to have friend that tells you the truth so you can dump both of them now.
Make new friends in England, put it down to experience, not everyone is like that and you will meet people who are better than that.
Why did you give him your friends ID?
2006-10-12 00:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by michelle a 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Indeed, this boy did something that would make you lose your trust in him, but not the entire world is like that. you're still young, and there are millions of people in the world that you haven't met (like me, for instance- I'm 15, so don't think I'm someone older preaching to you) that you could build some sort of relationship with- not necessarily love, but friendships. wait until you get older, and yours and others lives are more stable. then things will be clearer to see. and, finally, if something like this happens again, just break off the boyfriend-girlfriend thing, and still be friends-you did go out with the guy for a reason, you know.
2006-10-12 00:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by traintrack6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have to put it down to experience and be thankful that it happened at this stage in your life rather than later, when you might have been married and with children and your husband turned out to be a man you couldn't trust. These people have hurt you enough. Make up your mind that you are simply not going to allow them to hurt you any more. Don't treat the world with suspicion -- just be yourself and make friends, but be cautious before you give your heart away again. It has already been broken twice! You have your life before you -- and presumably it won't include those false friends in Roumania. Be brave and face the world and take it as it comes.
2006-10-12 01:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Doethineb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is a friend issue,it is a men are pigs issue, especially young men, if this guy went out with your best friend he really was'nt all that much, don't change friends, change guy's. Never stop trusting,it's not a "you issue",it's on them for being so shallow, if you are a teen this is the hardest time of your life,my best friend when I was a teen took my girl and vise versa,we are both grwn up and married with our own children, and are still best friends and have been for 30 years.Not to sound crass,but get over it, GOD made lots of guys for you to choose, and lots of people to make friends with,believe in your self, there is prbably nothing wrong with you,most likely you aer very nice and giving,this makes you a good friend to have! I found an article that make give you some insight,by the way this has happened to with lots of friends,whats more important him or your fiend, guys come and go, true friend are rare.
2006-10-12 01:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by Dino 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hi .. trust no-one then you will never feel disappointed when they let you down... I know that is how you feel right now.. I have felt that way many times in the past. I want to tell you that it is not your fault... we are all only human & make many mistakes for which we hope to be forgiven... by making mistakes ourselves we become more knowledgeable of how we have hurt others by our actions , we then are more thoughtful for the feelings of others .. you must never give up hope of finding someone that you can trust.. obviously, this will more than likely be an older & more mature person, who has experience of the consequences of their actions .
goodluck in your search .
bill
2006-10-12 01:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by healer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might sound not very helpful, but it is actually a good thing it happened sooner or later, as it just proofs that your boys and friends are idiots. There will be someone for you, it is just a matter of time, there are lots of honest people around.
2006-10-12 02:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Wednesday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its horrid when you have been hurt, but all is not lost i promise! Make a group of friends, do not rely on one friend. You are young, live for the present, you cannot spend years waiting for a guy. Any long distance relationship is hard, when you are young it is even harder. You will love and trust again honey. xxx
2006-10-12 00:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, if a man can go after another girl, he is not feeling "love". And trust me, there ARE guys capable of love, commitment and loyality. And there ARE girls who wouldn't betray a friend, best or not. He wasn't the one and she wasn't worth your trust, that's all.
2006-10-12 00:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by Totally Blunt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, its simple, find a guy you like and make him wait until you are ready to be intimate, see if he is a man or a boy, if he waits and respects you he's trustworthy, if not he only wants one thing.
Good luck.
2006-10-12 01:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by lambchop7770 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let these girls put you off.......the majority of my friends have stolen my blokes off me but you just move on - yeah im not saying it doesnt hurt because it does, alot, but these are the friends that arent worth keeping and they make a name for themselves!!! Within time you'll learn to trust people again, ut dont let these bad experiences put you off meeting new friends and guys!!!
2006-10-14 12:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by ~ $ t â?¬ p h ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋