I looked at the cell phone bill & seen that he is getting calls from a blocked # & he saw me looking at it & said you checking up on me again? That is the way I caught him having a friendship with a girl that was 18 & he is in his 30's. I don't say anything to him about it but I know from expereince with him he is very sneaky.He also hasn't really cared for having sex lately.He acts like I'm not even at home when he is at home. Alot of distance between us & I have a bad gut feeling something is going on.
2006-10-12 00:35:41 · 21 answers · asked by "karma" 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Karma, if I am understanding the situation right, you have two choices here...keep quiet and take the relationship for what it is or pack the bags and go on your way. If you stay with this man, who you love with all your heart, and he's doing the same thing again, he's not going to change. So, you are just going to accept this behavior and live with it.
If you decided enough is enough, and I deserve a man that loves and respect me, then pack those bags. There are plently of men out there looking for a woman that will not cheat, lie, and would be there when times get tough. You said he was very sneaky, can you keep on living like this..is it fair to you. Don't you need a man who wants to me with you and only you. That can't wait to come home to you, that wants to make you happy!
Karma, things like shouldn't happen, but they do and it tears your heart to peices everytime you find another peice of evidence that he's not be true to you. How long are you going to put yourself through this? Do you think you deserve this? You don't sweetie, I promise you that! If you stay, don't look at the cell phone bills, don't question, you are going to have to just live in a world without answers to be able to survive. Praying that you can find some happiness without him or with him...
God bless us all............
2006-10-12 03:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by totallylost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he your husband or BF. I don't know but i think he is a cheater and you have to do a lot and one more thing he is 30 and he is a man that's why i think in that age so many people doesn't like sex some times. Make you prepare to make a decision and may be its just a Miss under standing and don't need to stop the relation at all and in all the cases. Go some where for traveling or a dinner. If he is not a cheater you need a DR.
2006-10-12 00:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by Gagan Sawhney 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
girl always listen to your "gut feeling" thats why we have it. I'd move on if i were you, i'm sure your a pretty girl and you deserve a man whos gonna treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Tighten up that back bone baby girl, as i like to put it and find a better life. Good luck.
2006-10-12 01:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since he has kinda cheated on you already I would trust my gut instinct. If you really want proof and can afford it, hire a private dectective or do it yourself. Borrow a car he doesnt know and follow him and take a camera with you.
Or you could always call the show Cheaters.
Anyway the best of luck to you. I know how it feels.
2006-10-12 00:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Stop checking up on him and stop being so pushy and clingy, Start to find ways to keep him. More O outdoor fun! Anal, BDSM clubs, swinging or risk a life alone with this repeating itself. A amn stray when he is not getting what he needs....You are not doing your duty. Start to submit to his will and desires and NEVER say no to him x
2006-10-12 01:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We have gut feelings for a reason!
If this guy is just your boyfriend, save yourself and move on.
If this guy is your husband, take what you can now and leave!
Who knows what kind of disease he might bring home and into your bed!
2006-10-12 01:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen to your intuition (gut) ... he might be cheating on you. If he is, then he's not worth it. Find someone who will be better for you. There are plenty of decent guys out there.
2006-10-12 00:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by bsantos0523 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im thinking the same way with your story... if he did it before..then i guess theres a tendency that he will do that again..try to talk to him and yea..guys wont ever admit something bad even if they are doing it..but as much as possible..talk to him and clear things out..if it turns out that your instinct is right.. then pack your things and give him some time to realize what a precious person (you) he had lost..:)
2006-10-12 00:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by ettienne 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
karma...i think id put it back on him...id go out with some girls for a girls night out and sorta stay out late.. even if ur drinking coffee and in the car.. stay out late and when u get back be sorta evasive...he will soon see how it feels and maybe then you will see if he cares or not...love is not something id give up unless deep inside i was fed up and wanted out... if u love somone it forgives all...and puts up with a lot... but dont forget to love urself to
2006-10-12 00:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by cleo_alter_ego 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen to your gut feeling.
2006-10-12 00:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by nicky 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋