my bestfriend and i have been trading pics of our wives (they know we do it and they like it to) we wont to swap partners but wonder if that will affect our marriages ? friendships? my wife keeps asking me if i want to and wants me to pretend she is her and my friends wife does the same thing
2006-10-12 00:34:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Becareful, I am a woman so I can say this, we can be very tempermental and jealous. And you never know when that is going to pop up during an argument. Then you have to spend half your life proving that you do or did not like your friend's wife better or found her more attractive. From a woman point of view just becareful it is one of those things that will haunt you. And her asking that question is only a test question.
2006-10-12 00:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by TritanBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this certainly will ruin your marriage and friendship. In the worse case scenario, your wife will be attracted to your friend, his wife will be attracted to you, and it'll all just cause a big commotion. Let's say you decide to go through with it and you want to remain a couple as one but your wife misses the sex with your best friend, you'll be hurt and distraught or the other way around. Think about it!
2006-10-12 07:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is supposed to be 2 people being together. what kind of relationships do you have with your wives if you can simply swap partners? women are not things you can just trade with other people.
2006-10-12 07:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by CreativeGEEK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your marriage end up in a divorce and then hate each other after wards. Stay away from making trouble. You never be best friends again be happy with your Wife and forget it.
2006-10-12 07:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that will ruin both your marriages that will aonly show that all of you are capable of cheating against each other spoiling your marriage and your friendship with each other my advice is dont do it it is a nice fantasy but a dangerous idea. which wont end the way you all expect it too.
2006-10-12 08:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by zinja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a marriage is a commitment between a man & women.
a marriage does not mean you start trating your own partner like vegetables.
you should be loyal to her & if you were a good man you would not even look at some one elses wife.
imagine your wife with some other man in bed?????
2006-10-12 07:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by ashwini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are all consenting adults and believe in this sort of thing it would be alright. I don't believe in it but if you all agree with it then it will probably be alright for you. It may change the friendship though.
2006-10-12 07:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one is best left as a fantasy I think. If you swap it will open the door for jealousy.
2006-10-12 07:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ericka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not do it. It's one of those things that you can't take back or change. Your just horny at this point in your life and later on in life when your both more adjusted you might regret it.
2006-10-12 07:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by stevecook12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u ur wife and friend and his wife agress then proceed no problem.
2006-10-12 07:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by Eccentric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋