I wish I could just walk up to women and hit on them. But, I'm not completely out. I don't have time for women getting all offended and talking about me. I live on a college campus and I don't need my parents comming after me. I'm just sick of this guessing game.
2006-10-12 00:21:10 · 13 answers · asked by pjonkml 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Please don't assume that just because I and bi I don't know God. That is just ignorant. Now, if you don't like the idea of homosexuality, fine. Just don't post on my question
2006-10-12 00:31:34 · update #1
It can be hard to find other gay women, especially if you're not completely out. But if your campus has a LGBT club or if you're in an area that has a LGBT center you can always drop by pick up some community outreach materials that may have a calendar of events that you can attend. Also, if you are in an area of the country where Pride Month (June) is celebrated, then I would think there would be several places to meet other gay people. My girlfriend and I have been together for over 10 years and many of our closest gay friends are people we met in college, many in our gay circle of friends are people we've met at our church. I know that sound cliche, but we have a very tight knit community. It has taken half of my adult life to get to church, because of all the negativity and hate speech that takes place in more traditional churches, but if you are not opposed to stopping by a church, try one of the MCC (Metropolitan Community Church) that caters to the LGTB community.
2006-10-12 06:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by CrunkCat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found that if a girl keeps eye contact with you when talking and is very interested in what you have to say- and is engaged in the conversation.... she may be courious or just friendly- Ask her out- as a friend for coffee or something- If she isn't gay she will usually not accept...good luck... I love the MCC where I go and there is always the internet do a search for Gay support groups such as PFLAG or even the bars in your area and you can pick up a weekly newspaper from that community and find what you are looking for
OH and then there is always the personals in the newspaper
2006-10-12 00:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by admiredi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all hate the guessing game but it is the way it is even when your totally out.
Try looking up the campus GLBT group meeting spot. Most colleges have them. Great place to meet folks and without having to worry about others finding out.
If your college has no such group find an MCC in the local area. That is a church for GLBT and a great place to get new friends and satisfy your regilous side at the same time.
2006-10-12 00:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by dragon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would approach a woman in a way that wouldn't necessarily offend but make them ask you if you are serious. Something like this: "Hey, would you want to go out sometime?" "Are you serious?" "Yeah, I am serious." "I understand if your not gay or bi sexual and I don't mean to offend but I found you attractive." I think if you were to pose the question so as not to offend you wouldn't have any problem at all asking. I think if you were to pose it that way, some chicks would go home with you even if they weren't gay just to experiment. lol
2006-10-12 01:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by B1979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think offence is inevitable given how different people are & how much you're set on living your own life. i'd take it as just something 2 prepare for.
are there any appropriate clubs around?
are you willing 2 travel 2 other cities/places so at least where you live is safe from annoying gossip?
i'm sure if you keep an eye out, grab a few boobs & arses playfully a few of them will come round to the suggestion even if its only a short term thing
2006-10-12 00:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 06:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a relationship makes you sneak and hide your feelings, something must be wrong with it. If you are comfortable being who you are, you should be able to do what it is that you think you need to do. Just do it!
2006-10-12 00:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by adiahudo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously it is their problem if they find it offensive.
I would be thrilled to know a woman fancied me more so than a guy!!!! And i am straight
Just go for it
xx
2006-10-12 00:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by ballet-babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I think you should be looking for
a man--it is a sin to be sexually with a woman. I'm sure you were raised in church and you really know that what I say is true. There are so many
diseases out there--it gives me the creeps even to think how you would
be sinning sexually! YUK! NASTY!
I hope you find God!!
2006-10-12 00:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Your college should have a GLBT chapter or information to find other GLBT people. Seek and you shall find.
2006-10-12 00:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jazzys_mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋