As my nickname implies , i used to go to naturist clubs with an ex . My wife isn't into this but has no objection to me going around naked when i'm home alone . Although we are pretty secluded at the back of our house i recently noticed an older (late 50's) female neighbour watching me from just about the only place she could of . I pretended not to notice and have carried on as normal but she is very often there watching , she has started chatting to me in the street but hasn't mentioned seeing me naked , do you think i should stop my naturism ? or should i tell her i know she watches me ? or should i just carry on as normal ?
2006-10-11 23:50:46 · 21 answers · asked by naturist 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I shouldn't worry too much, I certainly don't think that you should stop practising Naturism, if that's a part of who you are. The lady watching is the one with the problem, not you. I wouldn't even bother to mention the subject unless she does at some point, she is the peeping Tom, you are simply going about your daily business in a way that you feel comfortable. What you choose to do in your own home/garden is up to you, don't let other people make you feel uncomfortable about being yourself - if the lady peeper has a problem with it she will say something soon enough, but it sounds as though she is simply enjoying the view. Take care.
2006-10-12 00:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Suzanne L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shout out, "hello" everytime she is there, then you can start saying, "hello again" then you can start saying things jokingly, like " I will have to start charging you soon", hopefully her embarrassment will put a stop to this.
Its a bit pervy peeping on people, but I suppose if people do this in view of others then its hard to judge.
Maybe she wants to be a naturist too and is too shy to ask.
If all else fails, put a fence or something up where it blocks her view, that should send a clear message.
2006-10-11 23:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by michelle a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be careful with this as my boyfriend likes to be naked in the home from time to time and was seen, next thing he was arrested for indecent exposure all because he was naked in his bedroom it was an awful year for us we had to move the area as we were threatened on a daily basis and it went to crown court but got droped as the police made it into something it wasn't so my advice is cover up if you know she is going to be around peeping on you, as you just don't know how she may turn if you tell her you know she is watching you and in embarrassment she may report you
Im all for naturism in the privacy of your own home and its a shame we cant do this with out the peeping toms around but the concequences can be devastating if its made out to be gross and indesent but if you cant be naked in the home were can you be naked
2006-10-12 00:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by vicky s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you like her watching you or not, if you do then don't worry about it, if not try not to be naked where she is watching, you cant really ask her as this will embarrass her if she is watching, or could embaress you if she isnt, get your wife to stand with you when she is looking she will soon stop.
2006-10-11 23:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work from home and sometimes still in my boxer shorts at 1pm, I often see my neighbour looking into my office (spare bedroom)
2006-10-11 23:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just carry on as normal if you feel comfortable in your own skin you are in the privacy of your own home so she is the one who should be embarrassed
2006-10-11 23:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by joe j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carry on as normal
2006-10-11 23:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by zara c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in the privacy of your own house mate so carry on if that what motivates you and don't let her know you are aware of her presence
2006-10-12 00:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry on as normal....
2006-10-12 04:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and subtely bring it up in conversation. If this is too hard, try and get your wife to discuss it with her.
2006-10-11 23:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by Luke D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋