2006-10-11 21:43:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
then it's considered rape, you can file a police report.
2006-10-11 21:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to have sex no one has the right to force you to do so. If it already has happened then it is considered rape and you have legal recourse. In many cities there are rape centers to help you through the process. If it has not happened yet but you are being pressured to do so then consider this. If the person is pushing you hard to have sex with them and you have explained that you are not ready to do so then do you really think this person is someone you want in your life for a relationship, someone who thinks so little of your needs and wants but only of their own desires. That doesn't sound like a person who is worth wiping your feet upon. Sex is only a small part of a relationship and if you are that far apart on this it doesn't bode well for a meaningful relationship. If they force you to do so and you give in you are going to end up at least strongly resenting them to downright hating them.
2006-10-11 22:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on what you mean by "forced." Are you being coerced into having sex or is someone physically forcing you to have sex? If someone physically forces you to have sex, either by violence or the threat of violence, then that is a crime and you should report it to the police. If someone (like a boyfriend) is coercing you into having sex by implying he will leave you otherwise, or some similar scenario then you still have the right to say no. Sex should always be a mutual decision.
You should never be forced to have sex. Do what you have to in order to get out of this situation?.
Best of luck to you and I hope you are OK and safe now.
2006-10-11 21:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person is physically forcing you, this is rape. Call the police ASAP!!
If it's someone trying to talk you into having sex when you don't want it, say NO and be firm. If it's your boyfriend, do you really want to have him in your life if he doesn't respect you or your beliefs? If it's a family member, neighbour, teacher, etc then you can still go to the police for help.
Nobody has the right to do this to you, physically or emotionally, so don't put up with it!!
2006-10-12 01:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have to agree with the previous person before me. This is not cool and should not be happening at all and needs to be reported. This person needs to respect your wishes and if its against your will then they don't love nor respect you and like it was stated it's rape. You need to move on from this relationship a.s.a.p.
In fact this reminds me of lyrics to a song, so here goes...
"Mother's Day" Lyrics:
I wanna know
Do you have the balls to ask?
what do you see when you look at a girl?
Is she a game you wanna win?
If no one was looking
What would you do to get in?
Do you have friends who would be proud
If you went in for the kill?
Do you have friends who would do it
Even against her will?
What if they did that to your sister?
What if they did that to your mother?
Why are we so slow?
I bet you think you're such a hottie
But a body afraid is not a sexual body
Everybody's been laughed at
And everybody's been left out but,
That's no excuse to turn it around
No boy has the right to hold a girl down
On your star wars sheets
When you get the scene
Was she seducing you
Or did she want to scream?
It's you versus you versus you
I can't forget that tomorrow's Mother's Day,
I'm talking to you
You know who you are
You've gone too far
You'll feel good for ten seconds
She'll be screwed up for life
You'll feel good for ten seconds
She'll be screwed up for life
2006-10-11 22:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, nobody can force you to do something that you don't want. But if your deney isn't of your relationship (bad communication etc) think about that having sex with a person you admire is divine. Evaluate him and do it.If you are afraid of the pain, I have to tell you that we also feel the same, when we did it for the first time, but the pleasure rewards you. In any case, you have the first word on this.
Have a nice day.
Vasilis
2006-10-11 22:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Vasilis P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you're doubting, then do not do it yet. of course, you have a boyfriend who's extremely expertise approximately each little thing. i could say- tell him which you definitely need to attend till you 2 have been relationship for a minimum of two years. that way, he would not experience like he would be waiting around consistently questioning no rely if he can save bringing up the area. he will appreciate you extra in the top by way of fact of it. oh- and if he already treats you like a princess and shows that he loves you, i doubt lots could replace with that. intercourse consistently complicates relationships, so ascertain you 2 have large communication skills and can communicate approximately each little thing before you get into having intercourse. desire that enables!
2016-10-16 02:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can forced you to do anything, unless YOU allowed them to. At 19, I'm sure you know the options available :-)
2006-10-11 22:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by TK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been given good answers!!! if you are being forced to have sex that is rape & you should report it to the police.
stay away from that person, & if your family wants you to be with this person stay away from them as well,move to another state if you have to
2006-10-11 22:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In other words- you are being raped? Call the police! Pronto!
2006-10-11 21:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋