What should I do?

Question

I got a friend (im a guy, she's a girl).... we currently felt like we're being isolated from our friends. They tease us and talk bad things about us. One of them used to be my best friend. The rest are friends. I fought with my best friend due to some misunderstanding. But I felt like its not the right thing because whenever member of that gang had some trouble I was always there to help. Its just not fair. I really hate them but somehow I felt scared nowadays.... its just that I cant believe my best friend treated me like that. After all the things i did to him. Not only him but also the others. I really hate myself to help them in the first place. Now I felt a bit lonely perhaps...... I just got confused.... i felt like I have no reason to go to school..... I really can't believe all this..... I mean.... everyday I was so scared to go to school to hear all those bad things they talk about me......... what should I do to make it all go away and start fresh anew?? HELP ME

Answer 1

first of all i'l say go to school... i know its tuff, but u gotta... if the same situation arises..then i think the best thing to do is to go ahead and ask ur old best frnd as to y he keeps hurting u this way... and tell him.. u have felt very lonely and isolated... and that he should never ever had done that being ur best frnd... but if he says that there is something which had annoyed his feelings... u should try changing it or compramise to a certain extent... if u r in a situation where u cant make that change then tell him.. heck he is suppose to be ur best frnd.. then he/she shld understand ur situation....

even after all this nothing really works... then i think this frndship has to go... and ask ur other frnd.. who is tha gal as to wat she feels if u both seem to be at a similar hurt pt.. then am sure u both can work things out together.... if she too is trying to avoid u coz of the way ur gang spoke abt u... then u otta ask y they doig that to u.... coz let me tell u.. no matter how good or bad u may be.. u cant jus let ppl walk all over u that way....

jus stand and confront with them... don miss school for such reasons. cos the more u stay at home not doing anything u'l end up going crazy... besides its not like they r the only ppl in school./... u'l get better and more sensible frnds..

all the best.. take care...

Answer 2

You guys sound pretty young. Why not make some new friends?

My gosh. You have your whole lives ahead of you. There are going to be some chapters in it that will make this seem like a walk in the park.

You have to face forward and move ahead with your life. A true friend will stay true. You are never as alone as you feel.

Take a deep breath and move on with your life, and if you have a friend who's a girl, well, that beats having a couple of guy friends. Make the most of what you've got and ignore what you don't have.

Some friendly advice from a man who's old enough to be your grandpa and who has outlived all the idiots who used to give me grief when I was your age.

Answer 3

Oh i know how you feel.. rise above them..Hold your head high.. it won;t go away over night..just stick with your girl friend.. let the nasty asses talk about you, don;t be like them and talk bad about them, they will regret their behaviour one day believe me. What sad sorry people they are and be glad you now know what they are really like and think of it as a good thing you found out now and didn;t turn out like them , Be friendly with other people, you will make some more friends in time.

Answer 4

press the erase button in ur mind.they r not worth feeling bad for.make new friends and find new hobbies.

Answer 5

It's so cruel... what a town without pity will doooooo. Whatever... TWO POINTS, suckas!!!