2006-10-11 21:41:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I see my first thought has already been posted. Don't allow yourself to be mistreated this way. Understand something, THEY ARE NOT YOUR BEST FRIENDS. A best friend truly has your best interest at heart. A best friend will not deliberately do things to hurt you. A best friend is like family. A best friend will make the best of each moment you spend together. It sounds to me that you are a great friend to these two people, but they aren't interested in being a friend to you. Right now, your best friend is you, spend time doing things to make yourself shine. You'll feel better in the long run. Whatever you do, do not fall into the trap of doing things to "prove yourself worthy" of these so-called friends. They don't seem very trustworthy.
2006-10-11 23:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should ditch these people. theres must be a way to fix this problem if u really want to. figure out the reason why theyre ditching you is it because ur being mean? tlak to the friend who treats you better. then talk to her and ask her why shes ditching you..
2006-10-12 04:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by B B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to ditch them. Friends don't treat there friends this way.
2006-10-12 04:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously their not really your best friends are they, or they wouldn't do that to you. When your young, you may think you have lots of friends and when you get older, you find out that maybe one or two of those hundreds of friends is actually a true friend. The others were just friends for the moment. You'll learn for yourself. It's just life.
2006-10-12 04:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by White Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling them your best friends, because they are NOT! And what are you waiting for, ditch THEM!
2006-10-12 06:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by No-one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch them!
I had a situation like this and I didn't ditch them. They ignored me soon enough.
2006-10-12 05:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by Marco A. J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .. real friends don't ditch you no matter what, so they really are not your friends are they!!!!!! So tell them to get stuffed and find some real friends!!
2006-10-12 04:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mind them, as if you're still ok for them. Don't break your friendship just for that ditching you.
2006-10-12 04:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by vsg0818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get more friends.
2006-10-12 05:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by abra_got_personality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and why are they your best friends?????? find new ones
2006-10-12 04:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋